my boyfriend wont make the first move wut should i do?
2006-06-18 19:38:47 · 17 answers · asked by kisha 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just go for it, it doesn't really matter who starts it just who continues it.
2006-06-18 19:43:32 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 15⤊ 5⤋
Sometimes guys can be shy, and with the pressure put on them by society to be the iniator, it can get rather nervebreaking. I think we are at a point in this generation where it's o.k if the girl makes the first move. Go for it. He will most likely appreciate it, and it'll make things more comfortable between the two of you since things have now been started.
2006-06-19 02:41:29 · answer #2 · answered by bobo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Which ever is so inclined to make the first move,should do it! Some guys actually like it when the female is a bit aggressive in that matter!
2006-06-19 02:42:17 · answer #3 · answered by Jo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should make the first move, because that is what I did to the boy I like and it worked.
2006-06-19 02:40:04 · answer #4 · answered by Tyto 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you do it. this world is not set with the guy doing everything anymore. both sexes are equal girls can make the first move if they want to. don't worry about what is the proper way of doing things. follow your heart and do as you feel you should.
2006-06-19 03:41:51 · answer #5 · answered by theswarm666x 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoever wants the power in the relationship always makes the first move.
2006-06-19 02:40:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say guy but girls should help a little. I mean u guys make it so hard on us that sometime we just give up!
2006-06-19 02:42:38 · answer #7 · answered by TheDreamer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
none of u ................. I guess the best thing can be done in ur case is that
1. if both of u are kind of in a same place and have kind of common frnds.................then try and indulge in a common talk wid ur frnds which include him..............it helps........
2. if u guys are just unknown to eachother .............then u shud give him a kind of signal like wen he looks at u ........just pass him a smile...............if he is really interested he will make the move.
2006-06-19 02:57:57 · answer #8 · answered by Mellesa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is up to both male and female - he maybe just nervous/shy around you!!
Go an give him a kiss and go from there!!
Good Luck with it!
2006-06-19 02:42:40 · answer #9 · answered by Beccygirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl
2006-06-19 02:41:10 · answer #10 · answered by anonymous 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh if he not gonna say it,u say it.it doesnt matter rite ?c'mon girl,u r strong enough...
2006-06-19 02:41:17 · answer #11 · answered by Nu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋