2006-06-18 19:21:40 · 16 answers · asked by ctlnmcgahey 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Keep your eyes wide open. Try to keep from becoming passionate about the relationship. This is difficult for most. Allow yourself the detachment of deep emotions. I found that this enables us to see the traits of a man, good or bad...We need to see them through our "friendship eyes" Think of it this way...what would a friend do? If he reacts like a friend repeatedly,then they begin to gain our respect and trust!! happy hunting....
2006-06-18 19:31:26 · answer #1 · answered by wndymrrs1969 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends on what he did? Did he forget the grocery list? Or did he cheat on you! Once you have lost a BIG trust there is no time limit. The doubt will always be there. I assume this is an issue of infidelity? Ask yourself can you live with doubt? Are you always going to be suspicious? Is it going to make you an obsessive B----.
Will you be checking up on him the rest of your time? If you have to ask for a point, can you reach it if someone gives you a time table?
2006-06-19 02:34:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im not sure what you mean by again because the trust should never be broken and if it is then its very hard to get that trust back
2006-06-19 02:23:35 · answer #3 · answered by kgsm 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes you can't. It all depends on you and your personality. If within a few months time, you still feel like you can't trust him - then let him go. Don't continue to make both of you suffer. There are times when it's best to cut your losses and move on.
2006-06-19 02:24:06 · answer #4 · answered by Buster Van Buren 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It took 13 years for me! And still at times, like if a trip to the store takes a bit longer than I think it should.I find myself wondering what he's doing! You just have to give the new man a chance,because they really "are not all alike" anymore than all women are alike!
2006-06-19 02:28:36 · answer #5 · answered by Jo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It took me awhile before I could trust men...but eventually I decided to open myself up to a few nice guys.
I still don't totally trust men, but I have a few in my life I trust more than anythiing.
2006-06-19 02:23:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first you need to get to the point where you can trust yourself again. and by that I mean allowing that you might get hurt again, but that you, the real inner you, is always OK.
2006-06-19 02:28:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll be able to answer that better once I figure out how to trust women again.
2006-06-19 02:27:15 · answer #8 · answered by Theo Black 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you'll know but one piece of advise; do not hold against him what the guy before him did; it's not his fault and if you do you might as well kiss a relationship that could be great good-bye.
i have 4 brothers and no sisters and saw all of them go through exactly that when all along they were trying to prove to her they wouldn't hurt her. but you'll know when your ready!
2006-06-19 02:29:16 · answer #9 · answered by makesuwonder7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can trust me.. but i dont think you really care.. so just go find a hot guy.. because that's what you want
2006-06-19 02:24:54 · answer #10 · answered by David 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋