2006-06-18 18:33:46 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
gently.
2006-06-18 18:34:39 · answer #1 · answered by wandering_canuck 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm tempted to tell you to grab it, hold it tight and never let it go; but, all I can say is that you should examine everything and make sure that it's absolutely necessary to break up with the person. It's something that even if you're right, you may regret it for the rest of your life. No other may match up to the person.
If you really like the person, and it's that much; then I say you should try and work it out. It may be better than starting over, who knows how many time before you get to another good match.
However, if you have to drop the person, then you should do it. That should be a cinch. I'll give you the first line, "Sweetheart, we have a problem." From there just remember the facts that you found for which you can't stay with that person. The reasons will help you through it forever. And when you turn away, DON'T LOOK BACK. Get away from there fast and far.
2006-06-19 02:12:44 · answer #2 · answered by kasar777 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be honest with the individual. No matter what we all have feelings. But if it is not going right then you know not to lead or string them along. It is always hard to break up. Try going out and doing some thing you both enjo, and start up conversation. (just dont go and do something that was realy meaningfull to the other person as it will hurt them more)
2006-06-19 01:37:23 · answer #3 · answered by Mindy a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know it really sucks when u have 2 let go of someone u really like..
u'll surely take tym 2 heal esp if u've been 2gether 4 some tym now.
so 2 make it easier, just invite him 4 a cup of coffee & then drop d subject. explain 2 him that if u'll follow ur heart, u'l never break up w/him but face it, ur not meant 2b 2gether so spare urselves fr a deeper pain...
just b honest 2 urself
2006-06-19 01:41:07 · answer #4 · answered by 2D1iLuV 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it really won't work out, then you will both know it. Have an open talk, not neccesarily with the intent of ending your relationship, but with the possibility if it's not salvagable. Just be careful, and if it won't work the first time, it won't work the second, third, fourth, and so on...so don't on and off it. Make a decision and stick to your guns.
2006-06-19 01:38:26 · answer #5 · answered by littleredbrainpower 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u really like them y does it matter if u can or cant b together. what is pulling apart yr love? nothing can stop true love. if u really like him and u want to stay with him than do it. dont let anything ruin yr happiness. u may never find someone like him again.
2006-06-19 01:37:57 · answer #6 · answered by babygurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know it's really messed up when you truly like (even "love") the person, and likely don't want to lose them from your life in a friend kinda way...
2006-06-19 01:35:39 · answer #7 · answered by jimi p 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK thats a tuff one .BUT be honest ok? WHAT ever reason your breaking up 4, be honest ok. I was alway taught Honesty is the best.IF your afraid, then send a note.
2006-06-19 01:37:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's hard to let go but if u love someone u gotta learn to just let go, find someone new. Just break it to them slowly i guess.
2006-06-19 01:35:18 · answer #9 · answered by AppleSoda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grow up and face reality. If you like him then there is no reson to break up. I get so sick of hearing girls cause drama where there is none.
2006-06-19 01:37:35 · answer #10 · answered by John 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats a really hard thing to do. Be honest.. tell the person exactually what you told us.. but add in why. be honest bc its the best way to handle it for the both of you.
2006-06-19 01:36:31 · answer #11 · answered by tansyangeni 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋