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Concerning pre-marital relationships: Sex isn't all that spells a relationship, as how the world is so wrongly misled by this. Satan wants us to bliv that a relationship is not whole without sex. As Christians we should not let Satan plant this lie in us or in the friends around us that we love.

Seriously I am indeed very hurt when young people get so involved with pre-marital sex and believed that every relationship must involve sex, which is not what God intended sex to be. God created sex as a means of highest expression of love by a couple united in marriage. And sex is only best when done within the boundaries of marriage, why can't people wait for the best to come?

Sometimes when I do meet non-Christian guys, though I may develope feelings for them, they seem to expect having sex with me if we do get together. They don't understand that, I do get very hurt seeing people that I love, being so wrongly misled by Satan into this lie.

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2006-06-18 18:24:36 · 24 answers · asked by Miss_Perfect 3 in Society & Culture Religion & Spirituality

To Orlando, there are people out there who claimed themselves to be Christians, but are they really Christians in the eyes of God? Anyone can claim to be a Christian, but only their actions really show if they are one. In the eyes of God, Christians are followers of Jesus Christ and that means they obey God's commands.

Well I do not force people to conform with my beliefs, just as how God respects all our decisions, whether we accept His Son or His existence. But, all our choices have consequences and God is just. A Christian's job is just to educate and share about God, and we respect your decision.

2006-06-18 19:11:14 · update #1

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I totally agree with you, But keep in mind that when it's all over, there won't be that many people from this earth going to heaven.
In answer to your question, Satan has thrown a blindfold over the eyes of the people, that they can't see, Remember the verse in the Bible " A child will lead them"? The reference to the child is because only a child will not already be defiled by this world..
Think about your favorite food, Now wonder to yourself what it would be like if you never tasted your favorite food before,, It would not be your favorite food, would it? Sex is first tried by teens and even younger children, because it's being taught in our schools. Once they try it they like it, they do it , until it's an obsession. and the A.C.L.U. is standing back with their boss "satan" laughing . But keep heart, for in Revelation it says, that satan and his followers will be cast into a LAKE OF FIRE... But it doesn't help our teens now though, except a good dose of AIDS..... That might cure them.. Hopefully some of our teens will stand back and watch before jumping in the sack, or back seat...
We had a visiting preacher that said he saw a bumper sticker that said " If it feels good, do it.... So he said he rearended him, later when asked why he did that , he replied It felt good.. The wrong message is being taught in our schools, and in most homes, also, I heard a father say to a boyfriend of his daughter, If my daughter gets pregnant, I'll break your neck, But to his buddys, about his son, Ah he's just out sowing his wild oats, Not CARING that it's someone else's daughter he sowing with..

2006-06-18 18:57:50 · answer #1 · answered by The Mailman 2 · 0 2

If you're saying that sex is better if you're in love, then you have a perfectly valid point. I'm sure there are people who will disagree, but I'm not one of them.

If what you are saying is that sex is better if you have a piece of paper signed by a minister, judge, or justice of the peace from the state where you live, then I think you are being kind of silly. Signing a piece of paper does not make a union sacred. If two people are in love and have committed to one another, I think any God worth the title will know that whether or not they file joint tax returns.

But believing that sex shouldn't be taken lightly isn't limited to Christians. There are too many reasons to list here why "casual" sex is ill-advised, even for those who realize that Satan is a story made up to frighten children, which some people never grew out of.

2006-06-18 18:37:54 · answer #2 · answered by abram.kelly 4 · 0 0

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2016-10-14 07:16:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

You have asked more than one question there and there's no real way to answer a series of statements. I'm sorry that you seem to be hurting. You write about Satan's lie and the world being misled about this subject and then you ask "why can't people wait for the best to come?" as if you expect that the reader missed the part about Satan's lie and being misled. Or did you?

2006-06-18 18:39:42 · answer #4 · answered by westcoastlib 3 · 0 0

That's the problem isn't it. Sex has become an instant gratification tool. A give me right now kind of thing. So people think that that is all there is to sex, just physical gratification. But, they don't realize the pure connection that God promised us, Dod (prenounced doad, like toad,) is the highest form of physical connection between man and woman, a physical linking of two united souls. The begining of Song of Songs says in one of the older versions, "Your dod is more intoxicating than any wine" it Soloman's wife speaking to him. This pure link is way better than anything Satan tells us we want now. If you want to hear some great sermons on this look up Rob Bell I borrowed a few things from his sermons and might have butchered them mightely. He's very good at explaining things. Just hang in there and know that many people know how you feel. True love is waiting when God is ready to bring you together. "hope, be undismayed." (from the song lift up your head)

2006-06-18 18:39:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

You'll come to realize in time that the world has many, MANY people in it. 6 billion and counting.

Most do not believe in your God.

Some do not believe in any God.

And of those that believe in your God, a sizeable portion do not adhere to the "no premarital sex" rule.

So before you can demand that the world understand your opinion, you should probably try to understand the world's...

If you were not raised Christian, you most likely would not think sex is such a big deal (it isn't, btw). I'm not advocating sleeping around -- the world isn't black and white -- but having sex with someone you really care about deeply, whether married or not, is a really special way of showing how you feel when words just aren't enough.

However, as for being "hurt" when "young people" get into sex -- get over it hun. It's none of your business. Really.

2006-06-18 18:36:37 · answer #6 · answered by Michael 4 · 0 1

Well, as for the bold fonted question.. there's alot of people who have a hard time believing in god for starters heh, one step at a time. hehe as for sex, love, and marriage. I was engaged to my wife for two years. We waited until marriage for sex. Yep two long years. We were both virgins, and as usual the first time isn't what it's cracked up to be haha even if you wait until marriage... The main bout you seem to be having, is the meaning of sex that seems to be lost when it is made as recreational... But, this doesn't have to make sex less meaningful.. In fact, sex never really loses or gains a real spiritual meaning.. It is an act.. a nothing more.. but what lies behind it.. is the respect and love the two people have for each other... you see.. when a man and woman become nothing but bodies.. then sex is in itself empty and to the appearence of many sad.. but when it is had between two people, who don't veiw each other as simply bodies.. then sex is meaningful.. no matter how casual it is.. I hope that answers your question.

2006-06-18 18:46:07 · answer #7 · answered by kerbourchardalan 2 · 0 0

"Why can't the world understand the true intention why God created sex?"

Because god DIDN'T create sex.

"Satan wants us to bliv that a relationship is not whole without sex."

Where's your proof or factual evidence?

"believed that every relationship must involve sex, which is not what God intended sex to be."

Where's your proof or factual evidence?

"God created sex as a means of highest expression of love by a couple united in marriage."

Where's your proof or factual evidence?

Anyone can make anything up. Stop trying to tell other people how to live when you can't back up your claims.

2006-06-18 18:33:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I agree. Sometimes, we get caught up as a teen or young adult with the trends or every body's doing it routine. Not necessarily peer pressured but wanting something more and mainly it's curiosity. A relationship with God will keep their focus on the right path until the right person and marriage comes along. God bless you for giving your heart on this. Hopefully,someone who is in this situation is encouraged to wait.

2006-06-18 18:36:47 · answer #9 · answered by Pashur 7 · 0 0

My post will not be a stupid, pointless, annoying message (spam). My post is going to be completely serious.

God made me homosexual. Therefore, I am attracted to members of the same sex, and will never marry a female, let alone have sex with one. How's that work? Shouldn't God have just not given me genitals, or no sexual urge? I mean, if I can't get married, I shouldn't even have the capability to have sex. What's up with that?

Homosexuality in and of itself completely ruins the foundation of your question. Homosexuals cannot fall in love with someone and get married like heterosexuals. So obviously, sex was not just meant for after you're married, or either everyone would be allowed the holy privelege of marriage, or those who aren't allowed to get married should not have a sexual drive of any sort. Assuming God intended that. Or maybe he intended for sex to happen before and after marriage. Who knows? You sure as hell don't, and therefore, should not be preaching about it. K? K.

2006-06-18 18:34:37 · answer #10 · answered by calivane07 3 · 0 1

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