i have a question there was this girl that liked me but didnt want to have a relatiopnship because she wasnt sure of her feelings. i got mad and we had lots of fights ,and we dont talk anymore .But she keeps looking at me all the time but doesnt want to talk to me because i hurt her feelings, because she says that i didnt care about our friendship, she told me she wouldnt talk to me never !! I dont know what to do!any tips?
2006-06-18 18:07:09 · 15 answers · asked by JohnMcgregortexas123 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
See a doctor
2006-06-18 18:09:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, apologize for you getting mad. Let her know that the relationship is important. Make sure she feels safe with you. Allow her to realize her true feelings. You both need to talk and be honest with each other. However, do not make her feel uncomfortable (meaning do not get mad). Avoid the fighting because that will get you nowhere.
2006-06-19 01:12:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her. Even if she says she won't talk to you, let yourself be heard. If you really cared about your friendship, you need to show her by being extremely careful not to say anything harsh. Do something that will make her believe that you really did care and that you want to be friends again. Eventually, she'll get over it. But girls are very sensitive to that kind of stuff so take it carefully.
2006-06-19 01:17:35 · answer #3 · answered by Rachel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
humble your self
if you want to explore any relationship that might still be there or find out if nothing is there- humble your self, an apology to start- no matter what it is for. Sweet gestures of kindness are always hard to be mad at. be more aware of her feelings and how you have hurt them. rebuild the trust in friendship before you explore the relationship more
2006-06-19 01:11:13 · answer #4 · answered by oregonmadisons 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lady perspective here- You say she "doesn't want to talk to me because I hurt her feelings." If she won't allow you to talk to her, she really needs to grow up. Even if you owed her an apology, how in the heck are you supposed to apologize to her if she is so immature she now won't even talk to you??? I think she has a big problem and it isn't you! If you still want to be her friend AND assuming you owe her an apology, I'd drop her a note or email saying that you wanted to talk to her and apologize but seeing as how she won't even talk to you, she has made that impossible. Leave the ball in her court after that.
2006-06-19 01:31:37 · answer #5 · answered by 8 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your a fool to have a fight with someone you like. It takes time for a girls to go into relationship soon unlike we guys. You should give a try once again and be patient.
All the best
2006-06-19 01:32:06 · answer #6 · answered by sunil u 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her time... But if after a while, she still won't talk to you... Send her flowers, and/or a letter. If you really care about her, then find a way to tell her that you're sorry, and that you do care about your friendship.
2006-06-19 03:50:44 · answer #7 · answered by Risa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let her cool off maybe she will get over it and talk to you again. If not there are other girls besides her to date. Once she see you move on she might want to talk to you again..
2006-06-19 01:11:46 · answer #8 · answered by ♥c0c0puffz♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ever hear the song " i just wanna be mad for a little while" ? give her some time , reassure her that you still have feelings for her and youll wait . good luck
2006-06-19 01:12:27 · answer #9 · answered by RM802001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A girls heart is very fragile. Apologize to her immediately! Tell her you want to talk again.
2006-06-19 01:10:27 · answer #10 · answered by eun3hei 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋