i need to know some advice?

Question

lets say i was in a realtionship with a man who is to old for me but i really love him to death and it is illegal for us to be together because i am not 18 yet but he is 19 goin to turn 20 in a few months but i really dont want to be without out him and i know i love him can someone please tell me what i should do.

Answer 1

my dear friend,
there are three thing you have to be extremely confident about

first one, is the boy, you are loving is loving you? first ask him and confirm it first.

second thing, are you in love? question yourself every day, every minute.

third and the most important thing is, at this age, love is not love, its a mix of love and attraction. but if you feel that you are in love (not attraction), just wait until you are 18 , as the guy whom you love is only 20 now, any ways he'll be waiting for 3-4 years from now to get married. so, by that time, you'll be a major--over 18 years.

love is not only caring for others, it involves patience also

Answer 2

Talk to your parents. Since it is illegal for you to be with him, the only way is to get them to like him. I had a friend that did this,she was 14 and he was 19. Her parents liked him and things went great. Then when she turned 21, she dumped him for a 56 year old fart. Funny how life works.

Answer 3

Well...does he love you back? If he does, he can wait until u turn 18.

Answer 4

Depends on how old he is. If he is more than 4 years older than you~ then it is concidered statatory rape.... but if he isn't that much older then you... and if you love and care for him and him the same to you... then follow what your heart feels. My husband is 10 years older then I am!

Answer 5

try to make friend first and after that u will know what the next step....