i really love my boyfriend, and he loves me too, but everyone around us is trying to tear us apart. i'm not allowed to see him this summer, and it's going to be really hard on both of us. we've been trying to make it work out, but i'm giving up hope. should i try harder,or just give up?
2006-06-18 18:01:28 · 17 answers · asked by troublemaker 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
A strong love relationship cannot be destroyed by anything or anyone, remember that. Even if all odds are against you, your true love for each other will make your love prevail and thrive despite the test of time and space. Just follow what your hearts dictate. Live your lives the way both of you want to. You are not accountable to anybody for what you do in your life, only to God and with that philosophy, you will never allow any circumstance or anybody to control your lives.
Don't give up hope because for as long as you respect your own decisions, and believe in your hearts that you will happy with each other, you should continue loving each other for as long as it takes. Your happiness depends on your strength to show the world that you alone have to decide for your own self and that they only have the right to advise or reprimand you but still the decision is yours to give no matter what it takes.
2006-06-18 18:11:05 · answer #1 · answered by Ruzzo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like you're still kind of young. . .I'm guessing between 14 and 16? I could be wrong; if so, I apologize.
You're not going to like my answer, but I think it's a good idea to spend some time apart this summer. It will give both of you a chance to get a better perspective on what you want out of the relationship. If your relationship is strong, it will withstand the separation. If not, well, at least you'll have your answer. . .
2006-06-18 18:09:22 · answer #2 · answered by freedomnow1950 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am having kinda the same problems in my relationship right now. I am at the point to where if I want to have a future with my boyfriend, then I am going to have to give up my family. They don't get along - pretty much hate each other. You know that there are a lot of great guys out there that can get along with the family and that you can love just as much. We are just attached and this confrontation in the relationship is drawing us in more. Its hard, but I'm going to have to say that you (and I) can do better and we should just move on.
2006-06-18 18:07:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really love him and he really loves u, then anything is possible & it can work. if your just experiencing puppy love, then give up now, sweety, and save your time & energy. there are plenty of fish in the sea. if you are as young as i think u are, then try talking to your parents about it. it is not wise for you to even think of having a sexual relationship at this point, i mean hey, look at the risks: pregnancy, STDs, etc etc. my mother did the same thing to me and i snuck around behind her back and i ended up losing my virginity to a boy that i didn't love, miscarrying a baby, drinking alcohol & i will be regretting it for the rest of my life.
2006-06-18 18:09:00 · answer #4 · answered by Morgan T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you two love each other like you say you do, don't let anything get in between you. You could also try to see why people are trying to separate you, if the reasons are weak, do what you have to do for him.
2006-06-18 18:06:46 · answer #5 · answered by Jocelyn A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you and your bf love each other and want to make the relationship work then you should both try your hardest to make that happen. Never listen to your friends or what ne one else thinks about your relationship, its only what you know and think.
2006-06-18 18:08:07 · answer #6 · answered by kgsm 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you are young. If this is the case, just give up and move on. You will have a lot of boyfriends in your life. The quicker you move on the more happiness you can enjoy.
2006-06-18 18:06:20 · answer #7 · answered by 3 Card 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really love him then do the best you can to stay with him, and try to make the other people understand that this is your problem and they cant tell you what to do, fight for what you want!!!!!!!!
2006-06-18 18:05:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let it be.You sound like you may be young.The reasons keeping you away from each other might be trying to tell you something.If it was "meant to be" he will still be there after the summer.
2006-06-18 18:05:27 · answer #9 · answered by missyandgordon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you really should try to stay together. true love means more than just seeing eachother all the time.
2006-06-18 18:06:31 · answer #10 · answered by Katariana 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋