If a man has never been in love, and partially blocks himself off a bit, how do you go about opening him up? Guys who were like this? What changed you? What made you fall in love? Quirks, laughs, attention, what?
2006-06-18 17:52:39 · 8 answers · asked by littleredbrainpower 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think you should just be you and show that you're there cause you wanna be and it's ok for him to be close to you...but don't be pushy about it...subtle. but don't get your hopes up keep your options open without being 'fast' ya know...this guy might not ever come around sometimes they won't even if you try everything...you just might not be the one who's supposed to bring him out. good luck though i hope everything works out!!
2006-06-18 18:42:41 · answer #1 · answered by *steelers* 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know.......to be honest, I don't really ever know if I've been in love before.....but I've been close.
I met someone last year......and the time that we spent together.....she and I just made each other laugh and smile....I didn't have to second-guess the person.....she was just being herself.....and she was real.
I think that this is the closest I've ever been in love because she let me be myself....didn't ask me questions full of nonsense....and she made me feel happy inside.
Because we had a minor spat, things haven't been the same.....but If I had another chance to see her......I would definitely do so...(she is in Mexico, I'm in USA)
What would make me fall in love with a woman is her kindness, sense of humor, and down-to-earth like qualities. To me .....that says it all.
2006-06-19 01:18:29 · answer #2 · answered by Sincero 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
humm, he may have been in love once and loved too much so when that person left he built up a wall that cant fall. i know because i still feel that way. the key is getting them to be ur friend have them trust u and eventually warm up to u. when he can tell u things that he would never tell others he will begin to trust u, although this may take awhile so dont count on anything to happen anytime soon. just be nice try to show that u care and dont push him into it. it takes time it's not something that will go away in a few days.
2006-06-19 01:00:12 · answer #3 · answered by kskid1987 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It helps to find a woman who really grabs your attention and earns your respect. If you don't respect a woman, you can't love her. It is hard to take the plunge if the chics you are dating are all there for fun and games. Find a woman who is as smart as you, thinks you are funny, knows how to open herself up to you, and don't ruin it by having a bad attitude. or feeling like you want to leave after you've had sex.
2006-06-19 00:57:54 · answer #4 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A closed up guy is usually just that, a closed up guy. They don't change, they just find women that are so full of themselves that they don't need to worry about opening up casue the woman is always opening up. lol
2006-06-19 00:57:23 · answer #5 · answered by 3 Card 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl my boyfriend is like that just do everything to make him fall for u hard.....
laugh,be outgoing,do things he likes,ask him what he likes in girls and be just that.
thats how i got this one now i'm pregnant and i told him all that stuff i did it so he could like me and he loves me very much we are so happy i promise!!!
but always remember be yourself also all those things count
2006-06-19 01:02:03 · answer #6 · answered by dassle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just finding that special someone
2006-06-19 00:54:46 · answer #7 · answered by MarinewithQuestion 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have sex
2006-06-19 01:37:30 · answer #8 · answered by biscuithead24 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋