what are blue balls? my boyfriend told me i gave them to him. is it contagious?

Answer 1

nope. Is the feeling of pain in the testicles when the guy gets aroused and he doesn't ejaculate. Is because of blood congestion in the testicles. Don´t worry, he will survive!

Answer 2

Blue Balls is a colloquial term used by guys when they become sexually aroused, almost to the point of orgasm and ejaculation, but they do not have a satisfactory release.

It is a term used by guys when they become horny around a girl or maybe are involved in kissing or foreplay and want to progress further. If the girl refuses to have sex, or perform oral sex on the guy, he complains that he has "blue balls" and that he is in pain and needs some release of some sort. He may chide the girl for being a "tease" and allowing him to get worked up without him being able to ***.

While sometimes there is some discomfort to being aroused and not being able to ***, it is rarely painful as guys make it out to be, and it is definitely not contagious. If you are not in the mood (and you sound pretty young anyway), and he complains that you are giving him "blue balls", tell him either a cold shower will cure him or he could masturbate to get relief. Don't let a guy use that as a way to try to pressure you into doing something you do not want to do.

Answer 3

Blue balls are when the male has an erection for an extended period of time without relief (intercourse or masturbation). This is the result of having the penis engorged with blood (which causes the erection) and then having the blood back up into the testicles/sctrotum. The result is pain. Eventually the penis will return to a normal flaccid state, but the man is still going to have discomfort.

Answer 4

It's an infection of the balls caused by too much sin. It's highly contagious!! Don't let him touch you in your precious corner and you'll be fine.

Answer 5

The above answer is correct and yes, they do turn blue (because there is increased blood flow to that region, so they get a blue tint).

It's not contagious.

Don't let him pressure you to do anything that you don't want to do. Guys try to moan about how much it hurts, etc., and how you did this to him by not having sex with him. This is just a ploy to try to make you feel guilty. He can get over it.

Answer 6

it's when you don't have sex with a guy, they say they get blue balls. i wonder, do they really turn blue? did you look at them and were they blue? as far as i know, this is an "imaginary condition" so it is not contagious.

Answer 7

no its not contagious its when a guy gets hard and the girl dont give him none and he cant bust but no they dont turn blue my b/f said it feels like a black eye

Answer 8

Is he wearing wet blue-dyed jeans? It might be the dye. No, I don't think it's contagious.

Answer 9

"blue balls" is when a man is ready to ejaculate but the semen is held in because the stimulation has stopped.....the pain comes from the constriction of the muscles in the ball sack...i dont know anything else lolol

Answer 10

Blue balls is a slang term for a temporary fluid congestion in the testicles and prostate region caused by prolonged sexual arousal in the human male. It is most commonly associated with adolescents but can occur in any sexually mature male. It is often accompanied by a cramp-like ache of prostatic congestion and pain/tenderness of the testes.

The easiest way to relieve the symptoms of blue balls is through an orgasm either by masturbation or sexual intercourse. The resultant ejaculation jump-starts the sympathetic nervous system, which increases blood flow through the groin area, dissipating the fluid buildup. Even without orgasm, the symptoms of blue balls usually subside within an hour of onset. The symptoms can also last much longer. A review of the medical literature by Chalett and Nerenberg in 2000 found little formal data regarding the condition but concluded that "the treatment is sexual release, or perhaps straining to move a very heavy object — in essence doing a Valsalva maneuver."

One folk remedy for blue balls is the cold shower. Putting cold substances (such as ice) on the crotch region significantly helps. One source [1] states that "the cool water of the shower would stimulate new warm blood to the scrotum," but local cooling might instead work by causing arterioles in the scrotal skin to constrict, thus decreasing blood flow to those tissues and allowing fluid to leave the congested areas. Also, physical exercise like walking, climbing stairs etc, can ease the engorgement. Sometimes drugs containing pseudoephedrine can help quicken the process; however, availability of medicine containing pseudoephedrine is limited in some countries. Analgesics do not generally help as they do not involve prostaglandins.

The easiest way to relieve the symptoms of blue balls is through an orgasm either by masturbation or sexual intercourse. The resultant ejaculation jump-starts the sympathetic nervous system, which increases blood flow through the groin area, dissipating the fluid buildup. Even without orgasm, the symptoms of blue balls usually subside within an hour of onset. The symptoms can also last much longer. A review of the medical literature by Chalett and Nerenberg in 2000 found little formal data regarding the condition but concluded that "the treatment is sexual release, or perhaps straining to move a very heavy object — in essence doing a Valsalva maneuver."

One folk remedy for blue balls is the cold shower. Putting cold substances (such as ice) on the crotch region significantly helps. One source [1] states that "the cool water of the shower would stimulate new warm blood to the scrotum," but local cooling might instead work by causing arterioles in the scrotal skin to constrict, thus decreasing blood flow to those tissues and allowing fluid to leave the congested areas. Also, physical exercise like walking, climbing stairs etc, can ease the engorgement. Sometimes drugs containing pseudoephedrine can help quicken the process; however, availability of medicine containing pseudoephedrine is limited in some countries. Analgesics do not generally help as they do not involve prostaglandins.

Answer 11

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A guy always cums fast when its their first time. and especially if he's been waiting for a long time. Guys are erect at least 5 times a day so what I would do is some foreplay until he ejaculates or the both of you for that matter its not fair that he has orgasms and you don't so get him to do you first and then once you finish he will be more than ready for his orgasm. then use a condom because that cuts down the sensations for him if he feels he is about to come prematurely then tell him to come out and do some more foreplay on you so he has time to calm down. the condom should work but if you want a baby tell him to take the condom of before ejaculation and then finish in you. the longer you wait to make him come with foreplay the quiker it will be because he has to get it out of him.

He also does need time because you are the only one he has been with so once he gets used to it, you can really enjoy it once he gets his techniques down pat. Tell him what you like. Get some books and videos also until you both are experienced. Or you could even have a quickie in the morning, when you get home and then at night. he will diffently last longer because his mind has been free twice already. You get on top of him and you control the situation. Also my boyfriend tells me that he thinks about none sexual things for a while to help control him, tell him to think about a sport or something that calms him. If that doesn't work then just do IT over until you are satisfied