ok so theres this guy, and he goes for blue, my big bro and his homiez go for red, so they are constantly telling me that im not allowed to like him!! wat should i do??
2006-06-18 17:16:12 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it's your life you should do what your heart really wants if you want him for it! =]
don't let anyone tell you want to do..good luck =]
2006-06-18 17:25:10 · answer #1 · answered by sassysnrta 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take there advice, it will only cause problemns for you an your family anfriends, ther eis a reason that all dont like him. trust the people that love you, there is more guys out there im sure you can fine one that everyone likes, i would usually tell you to follow your heart , but i can tell you i wish i would of listen to my family an friends , an it would of saved me alot of sleepless nights , an alot of tears, i thought he was cute an fun an i really liked hiim, after a year with him , i got lied to an hurt an im still with him ,he has got me so low own my self i dont think anyone areanything would have me, girl please dont fall for him , save your self alot of heartack, i wish you the best , pray your going to be ok , wish now i would of listen to family, take care
2006-06-19 00:24:51 · answer #2 · answered by cris 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends why they don't like him. I learned the hard way that if my fam and friends don't like my boyfriends, there's something I'm refusing to see about him. None of my friends and family liked my first boyfriend, but I didn't care b/c I loved him adn we were fine together...typical relationship shet. But after we broke up, I was able to see who he is from an outside perspective and can see why my friends and fam didn't like him. You just might have to learn the hard way yourself. Otherwise, your familiy is being irrational.
2006-06-19 00:21:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its your choice you have to weigh it a little bit if he's worth it and u know you're fam too well u shud know how they would probably react if you went all the way. If it were me, it will never gonna work out my mom is gonna kill that ****** altho she doesnt have too much of an expectation as long as its a good girl i liked.
2006-06-19 00:28:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to your heart, give the relationship some time to grow. It takes years to grow a beautiful rose bush............ Remember a rose bush has thorns, you will prick yourself as you prune and cultivate the endless beauty. Can you see the forest through the trees? Is he worth it??
2006-06-19 00:22:48 · answer #5 · answered by Blue Eyes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it's your choice your the one who has to live with it.
however you could be blinded by love & your real eyes are your those of your family, believe it or not. so i would say to take their point of view into consideration, listen to what they're saying & see if it's true.
i know it can be hard, but try to look at him without the lens of love over your eyes
2006-06-19 00:27:11 · answer #6 · answered by reah d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to stay true to your colors. Only bad things can happen.
2006-06-19 00:19:53 · answer #7 · answered by 3 Card 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
http://www.daylon.com/dating/
that site has some good advice on the topic.
2006-06-19 00:26:19 · answer #8 · answered by nolyad69 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you like him, then it's your decision, not theirs, at the end it's you who will be dating him
2006-06-19 00:19:40 · answer #9 · answered by Noveau 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋