And he knows it but sometime he treats me like a princess and sometimes he acts if he hates me I dont know what to do I'm in love with someone who doesnt love me help?
2006-06-18 17:06:47 · 7 answers · asked by ? 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How can you possibly love someone that treats you bad.
He's telling you that he doesn't love you by being engaged to someone else and that you are just sex to him.
Can you be anymore of a loser? If you find your self respect maybe someone else will notice you.
2006-06-18 17:11:24 · answer #1 · answered by MissCan'tBeWrong 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is engaged.What does this tell you?If he treats you like a princess one minute and dog crap the next, does this really sound like a man you want anyways?also, IF he is coming on to you at all, what do you think he would do IF you two were in a relationship?If he flirts with others(and I am saying If cause I don't know all the details)what makes you think that your relationship,if there was one, would be different??Cmon!!The man is engaged!!!I think since you are in an unhappy relationship you are looking for a way out, as well you should.IF you arent happy ***Get Out!!!But don't look for someone who is already in a relationship.Let go of your mate and find another....far away from these two guys.
2006-06-19 00:13:31 · answer #2 · answered by missyandgordon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are caught between actually loving him and being seduced by the competition game. You want to win him because you want him to be happy with you. We as women CANNOT take rejection at all; it is not part of our nature. We are the ones usually pursued so when we actually put ourselves out there, our egos become extremely sensitive.
I suspect you wait by the phone, you drive by his residence, you doll yourself up with the chance of seeing you. You want him to pick you. Would you still love him like this if he was unattached? I am sure you will say yes LOL.
The reason he is like this with you is because he is confused. He is caught between what feels good at the moment and guilt. I am sure he genuinely cares for you BUT essentially it sounds like he is in love with 2 women. Dangerous. He will continue to waffle between the 2 because he needs one of you to make the decision which usually comes from a blowout.
Your choices are to accept sharing him and live for those sweet moments OR walk away. Not really a win/win situation for you. To know what you really want, give yourself space and keep busy. I know it will kill you like an addiction BUT you will continue to be caught in this tangled web until YOU make a decision. Easier said than done I know.
Good luck!
2006-06-19 00:45:45 · answer #3 · answered by st8up 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey! You must really be in love with him! Just look at it this way. If somehow his marriage doesn't workout or doesn't happen there is a reason for it. Maybe then you can come into his life and be open about it. But if all their plans happen as they want them to, then you know its not meant to be and he's not the one for you and there is someone better out there for you.
2006-06-19 00:14:10 · answer #4 · answered by beca 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move On!!!!! He is never going to leave his wife for you!!! as long as he treats you this way, he will keep doing so.
2006-06-19 00:14:20 · answer #5 · answered by taushadoll 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love him enough to let him go.If he is engaged that should tell you the feeling aren't the same. sometimes to love someone is to let them go.
2006-06-19 00:22:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont stay unless you can't picture life with out him. Can he picture life without you? ask him
2006-06-19 00:10:52 · answer #7 · answered by Christina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋