Is it still cheating or having an affair if you are having sex with a married man and his wife knows about it. The three of you have had a threesome a couple times before. And the swinging lifestyle is how they, the couple and other person met.
2006-06-18 16:57:13 · 15 answers · asked by toodie7298 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That's the life of a swinger I suppose. Cheating is only if a partner is not aware the other partner has other partners. Your deal is out there in the open, so swing away and hit them home runs...
2006-06-18 17:02:18 · answer #1 · answered by DarthFangNutts 5 · 3⤊ 1⤋
If they chose the lifestyle and are happy then I would say no, it's not really cheating. If one of them chose to not want to be a swinger anymore and the other one continued then yes it would be cheating. Make sense? If all is happy then I would say it's not cheating!
2006-06-18 17:22:30 · answer #2 · answered by gypsilee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Its consentual between the three of you. I don't feel thats cheating. Cheating is when a man or a woman sneaks behind their partner's back, and finds another to have sex with. Not the man and woman saying, 'okay this is what we both want to do'
2006-06-18 16:59:24 · answer #3 · answered by phoenixdreamangel 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's apersonal decision.IF you all met in a 3sum lifestyle, then I am assuming it is okay with all 3 of you.Also, if she knows that he is with you alone(without her) and she is Ok with it, than I am guessing that it is working for all of you and that goes with the lifestyle and wouldn't be cheating for you.BUT IF it gets to the point he lies to his wife about seeing you, theen it would become cheating.If she allows it then she dosent care and you dont either,then your all willing, capable of deciding adults.practice safe sex!!
2006-06-18 17:03:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are all fine with it then I think it's ok. Obviously you are in the know so I don't need to warn you about feelings getting hurt, crossed wires and general communication breakdowns.
2006-06-18 16:59:47 · answer #5 · answered by fullofsugaw 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, not cheating. That is, until the lies, jealousy, and possessiveness start to set in. If you can rid yourselves of those, you are home free. Enjoy it while it lasts.
2006-06-18 17:03:00 · answer #6 · answered by Angela W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it is only cheating if you do it behind the other person's back and do not tell them about it.
2006-06-18 17:00:51 · answer #7 · answered by thats me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, she knows and approves of it, so its not cheating unless she doesnt know.
2006-06-18 17:02:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
all sounds fair as long as everone knows there place
2006-06-18 17:01:34 · answer #9 · answered by wilco254 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SWINGER LIFESTYLE IS NOT OK....BUT ITS YOUR LIFE
2006-06-18 17:00:46 · answer #10 · answered by BUD 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋