Ok i have gotten alot of responses to my other question that i need to give her space..does that mean stop with everything, the phone calls, the nights out, and even the sex...How can i be there for her and give her space at the same time..And how long is this supposed to last till some results are shown..
2006-06-18 16:43:59 · 18 answers · asked by luvless 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ever hear the phrase; "Absence makes the heart grow fonder"?..that means: being apart, with other interests makes you long to be together...miss each other...also it gives you new experiences and more to talk about when you are together...but how can you miss each other, long to be together and share new experiences if your always together?..Space means she wants to do some things on her own...be with her own friends and family...she was an individual long before she was your girlfriend. Let her have her space, and she will appreciate time with you more...if you don't you will be smothering her and your relationship.
2006-06-18 16:51:42 · answer #1 · answered by evemarkra 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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Ok i have gotten alot of responses to my other question that i need to give her space..does that mean stop with everything, the phone calls, the nights out, and even the sex...How can i be there for her and give her space at the same time..And how long is this supposed to last till some results are...
2015-08-13 21:33:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If people are telling you to give the girl space, more likely than not you're being compulsive, and even obsessive with your communication with her. I don't know the details of what your relationship is, but when someone tells you they need space, it normally means, literally, quit smothering them. Don't call all the time, e-mail all the time, or just "stop by." Think of it this way. Communication, if sound, should be like a scale. Any time she calls, you can call her back. Any time you call, you have to WAIT until she calls you back, otherwise, you've just tipped the scale. This applies to every form of communication, both literal and digital.
2006-06-18 16:50:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Giving some one space, simply they want you to be a fool for them and allow them to do their thing, while you set by and wait, or if they don't care for you hold hearted they really don't care what you do. An other words you were just a booty call. Sometimes a person just wants or needs time alone to think out what they really want or where they want to go.
2006-06-24 16:40:00 · answer #4 · answered by antoineaguice 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
OK this just happend to me to, ive been in this relationship for 3 years off & on. last week he told me that he needed space that he was feeling smothered. So i decided to give him his space, and i left him. How is someone going to expect someone else to just sit back and wait untill they dont want their space anymore. A friend told me: Girl he isn't in jail your not going to wait for him, If and when he is ever ready then he can call me if its not to late.
2006-06-22 07:01:36 · answer #5 · answered by Samantha 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It means that you are giving each other the space to go out with friends, and not be around each other as much as you are. It doesnt mean that you have to stop everything, just dont hang or talk to each other as much as you normally do.
2006-06-18 16:52:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
depend on the person. some people when they say give me space they dont want to see u at all but r just trying to be nice about it. others mean that they need time away from u.
2006-06-18 16:50:08 · answer #7 · answered by Rachel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"give me space" means I'm not attracted to you... you're getting on my nerves. Sorry if this sounds harsh, but I'm just being honest with you. Go out with someone else.
2006-06-18 16:48:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
These are questions you probably need to be asking her.The fact that she wants space may mean she feels smothered or may want out the relationship altogether.the best advice that I can give you is to talk to her.Ask her how she feels and to what degree.Ask her if that means she dosen't want you to be there for her, or no dates, no sex, etc.good luck.
2006-06-18 16:48:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
personaly when i hear i need space they are saying i want to see what else is out there! Do your own thing be unavailable!
2006-06-18 16:51:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋