oh my goodness, where do i start. we've been dating for 2 1/2 years and everything was going great. we did the long-distance thing for bout a year. then the past 3 months have just been crazy. we broke up like 3 times but we would get back together. he surprised me and came to visit me for 5 days. the last day he was here we had an argument and broke up, but before he left we talked about it and everything was fine. but later on i found out he had a profile on the internet, that said he was single, and he had nothin but females as his friends, and even some of the females im still suspicious of cause i know they're not just his "homegirls," i aint stupid and mama didnt raise no fools. so i asked him about it and we got into it and we broke, up. but this time its different, we havent talked for a week, i call him, text him and email him but no response. i'm really hurt, he was my 1st & only luv, and i want him back. i've never had to go through this b 4. WHAT DO I DO?
2006-06-18 16:38:32 · 8 answers · asked by boo 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Talk to him... Tell him everything you just told us...Good luck...
2006-06-18 16:43:15 · answer #1 · answered by Manda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You deserve better. Always remember that.
Don't keep pestering him. Keep your head high and occupy yourself with things that will make YOU happy. go do some shopping, or pick up a new hobby or sport, anything just have some fun. It does hurt a lot when you love someone and they don't want you anymore. but that's only cause the boy is stupid, and when you've moved on, he'll come running back, and it will be his time to hurt.
just remember you're better than that
2006-06-18 16:45:11 · answer #2 · answered by tigrelis28 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your to needy, I certainly wouldn't answer any thing from you. Time to grow a backbone. Long distance very rarely work. It will get easier. Live your life and enjoy what you have. Don't take life for granted and miss it as it passes you buy because your to upset about something you have no control of.
2006-06-18 16:44:12 · answer #3 · answered by buxomkity 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl, you ned to leave that player! if momma didnt raise no fool then you know the right thing to do. get over the pain..it takes time .. and you will move on save time and heartache let it burn now while he is gone and never go there again. love and respect yourself!!!!!
2006-06-18 16:41:57 · answer #4 · answered by ***BUTTERFLY*** 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to lose the loser! This may sound harsh but are you really willing to settle for that kind of treatment? It's obvious that he still has wild oats to sow.
2006-06-18 16:42:53 · answer #5 · answered by funlady6632@yahoo.com 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ditch him , He was obviously playing you I used to do that before I grew up ,move on
2006-06-18 16:41:40 · answer #6 · answered by newjersey2112 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would you want sumone who would hide things and lie to you..You need to stop and leave him alone..you didnt do nothing wrong so there is no need for you to call and get in contact wit him..Maybe its jus time that you guys go your seperate ways..Now that your finding all this out, wat makes you think that he wasnt doin this all along...
2006-06-18 17:04:48 · answer #7 · answered by luvless 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get on with your life
2006-06-18 16:42:35 · answer #8 · answered by asoldierswife 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋