THEY WERE EACK OTHERS FIRST LOVE AND FIRST SEXUAL PARTNERS. THEY WERE TOGETHER FROM THE BEGINNNING OF THEIR FRESHMEN YEAR(SEPTEMBER) IN HIGHSCHOOL UNTIL THE BEGINNING OF THEIR JUNIOR YEAR IN HIGHSCHOOL (SEPTEMBER)(2 YRS). AT THE END OFTHE YEAR WE GOT TOGETHER AND SHE WAS REALLY UPSET AND HAS BEEN TRYING TO WIN HIM BACK EVER SINCE. WE HAVE BEEN TOGETHER NOW FOR THREE YEARS. THEY SHARE MUTUAL FRIENDS AND SHE ALWAYS ASKS ABOUT HIM AND OUR RELATIONSHP AND THEY USUALLY TELL HER WHAT SHE WANTS TO KNOW. I HAVE TOLD THEM MANY TIMES TO NOT TELL HER ANYTHING BUT THEY NEVER LISTEN. SHE IS CRAZY AND HAD ABOUT 6 OR 7 RELATIONSHIPS SINCE THEY BROKE UP AND THEY ALL DUMP HER BECAUSE SHE ALWAYS COMPARES THEM TO MY BOYFRIEND. HE HASNT SPOKEN TO HER IN YEARS BUT SHE STILL IN LOVE WITH HIM. IS SHE CRAZY AND NEEDS HELP.
2006-06-18 16:33:17 · 5 answers · asked by BABYGURL 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
SHE IS NOT A FRIENDLY PERSON (ATLEAST NO TO ME) AND I HAVE NO INTENTION OF SITTING DOWN AND TALKING TO HER. MY BOYFRIEND BROKE UP WITH HER BECAUSE SHE WAS INSECURE AND POSSESSIVE AT THAT YOUNG AGE. HE WAS MESIRABLE WITH HER AND THATS WHY HE BROKE UP WITH HER AND SHE CANT MOVE ON
2006-06-18 16:52:21 · update #1
I dont think shes crazy but counsiling to help her fiqure out why she cant move on would help.it must be very frustrating to deal with and a bit sad too for her.People heal at different speeds,no guy willl ever stand a chance as long as she keeps comparinga nd if it was that great they still be together! hang in there!
2006-06-18 16:40:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
She sound like she may be a little off, but as long as u and ur b/f are happy and he has no intentions of getting back with her then u have nothing to worry about.
She may know that it bothers u that she keeps asking about him which is why she keeps doing it.
But if ur b/f is staying clear of her because he truely don't want her anymore then u shouldn't let it get to u.
Don't give her the power, she's the one with the problem she can't let go and thats sad.
She needs to move on( but not b 4 she seeks help)
The best thing to do is ignore her and when she comes around uand ur b/f should walk pass her like she's not there and if she says anything to either of u just look at her like the nut she is and if u have to say something to her , say " BOY U NEED HELP U POOR THING, U HAVE NOTHING BETTER TO DO SO BECAUSE UR A NUT U HAVE TO MAKE OTHERS AROUND U FEEL SORRY FOR YA
She may get upset at first because deep down she knows it true, then hopfully after awhile she will stop coming around and asking about him if she sees that everyone thinks she needs help.
2006-06-18 23:43:30 · answer #2 · answered by itspink22@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The truth is no one can truly get over their first love and the only people that can are heartless. You should try to make it easier but harder at the same time. Become her friend, let her get to know her and you get to know her to. If she try a fast one and tries to seduce your boyfriend, you shouldn't have any problem kicking her *** after that. Right now she can deny that she asking question about your boyfriend but if you become friends with her, she might start asking you questions or just stop completely.
2006-06-18 23:45:02 · answer #3 · answered by Cara W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be careful, she seems like the type of crazy girl that would slash your tires or key your car.
2006-06-18 23:39:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't allow her to take up too much space in your head or your life....she is sick...she is a fatal attraction... just make sure your boyfriend isn't really leading her on...you never know
2006-06-18 23:36:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋