2006-06-18 15:52:32 · 41 answers · asked by ineline5 1 in Politics & Government ➔ Military
No.
2006-06-18 15:54:59 · answer #1 · answered by DAR 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Go ahead and marry her and raise other mens children.
If she slept with another man because you joined the Air Force, what is her next excuse. Maybe cause you put the roll of toilet paper so it goes over the top of the roll instead of underneath. How about leaving the toilet seat up?
Look man, she is a selfish, self centered little tramp that will make up excuses to sleep with other men. Then every time she gets pregnant you'll have to do DNA tests.
If you don't and decide to divorce her a few years and kids later, guess who gets to pay the child support? It won't be their biological fathers. If the judge desides the children think your their father, then you are and get to pay the child support. The guys she slept with get to keep their money and sleep with other mens wives.
So go ahead and do what you want to do. If you didn't want to do it, you would not have asked this question.
Years down the road, you will remember this answer, when the judge says "It doesn't matter the DNA doesn't match, the kids think you are their father and so I declare you are. Your child support will be $800.00 per month per child for a total of $2400.00 a month. The due date for payment is the 1st day of every month with a ten day grace period". Oh yeah! The Supreme Court has said the Judges can do this, so forget appealing to a higher court.
2006-06-18 21:48:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take this from an Air Force wife the military life is hard it is even harder on the military wife if she could not handle it with you joining trust me she will not be able to handle it while you are gone to basic and tech school which will be a long time of her being by herself. Then you have the TDY's and possible deployments and the PCS moves all the time, you need a wife that supports you 100%
2006-06-18 17:55:20 · answer #3 · answered by calraisin_98 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should definitely "agree" to marry her! Get her all excited by shopping for the ring and the dress and so on. Then right before the big day you should dump her *** in the most dramatic fashion possible. Perhaps you could sleep with one of her friends;) You should use this opportunity to teach her a lesson and get some revenge. You're still young! Have fun!
2006-06-18 17:26:12 · answer #4 · answered by doug_coomer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless you like dealing with immature and childish women I would say no. That is not the way to handle situations that upset you. Cheating doesn't help anything; discussing the situation and trying to rectify it together is a more responsible and mature response. What happens the next time you do something she doesn't like? Will she do something even more outrageous? I think you better think about this very carefully before you marry this person.
2006-06-18 15:59:55 · answer #5 · answered by mochasister 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, if she cheated on you once because you JOINED, imagine when you have to leave for extended periods! What if you get a field job where you're on the job 4 and off 3? Is she going to cheat on you while you are in the field? What about if you have to go to any type of leadership training? Chances are that she would have cheated on you anyway, but you joining the AF is her way on pinning it on you. Making you the guity party somehow, for "leaving her". I would say stay away!
2006-06-18 16:02:18 · answer #6 · answered by LizzieDawn 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No way, you deserve better than that. Once a person cheats on the person they love, the trust between the two people has been broken. Who knows, she could break your heart again by doing the same thing all over again. Keep up the good work in serving our country.
2006-06-18 15:57:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps she has her own reasons for why she cheated on you. It would be good to talk to her and find out her insecurities, fears, etc and what led her to do the thing she did.
It depends on whether you want to continue on with this relationship and whehter you can possibly forgive her. Because trust has been broken already, and its gonna take a lot of her effort to show to you she's worth your trust again.
Cheating is the worst thing a couple can go through and I would urge you to be prudent even as you start to deal with her again
2006-06-18 15:59:03 · answer #8 · answered by GEN Gamer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no! it doesn't matter why she did it. If you are deployed overseas for months on end, are you going to be able to do your job with other people depending on you with their lives, or are you going to be distracted & worried by what she may or may not be doing back home. NO! NO! NO! The military aspect shouldn't even matter. If someone cheats on you before you're married, leave them right that second. If after you're married, you have to decide if you're working it out or leaving, but you NEVER get married with that already in their past, NEVER!!!
2006-06-18 19:51:27 · answer #9 · answered by djack 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She cheated on you because you gave yourself to defend the freedom of this country? Think about that -- what's her next excuse? Can she murder you because you had to leave early for a base exercise? It's just as twisted as cheating on you because you joined the forces.
The decision is yours of course, but I certainly would be as far away from that girl as geography could put me. Sounds like she needs to do some growing up.
2006-06-18 15:56:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No if she cheated on you one time she will do it again and if her only reason was that you joined the air force then she is just looking for an excuse to break up with you. I am sorry for your loss but there are better out there don't ever forget that.
2006-06-18 15:58:37 · answer #11 · answered by beachbaby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋