I've fallen for a woman who is 16 yrs younger than me. What should I do?

Question

I am in an undefined relationship with a woman who is 16 years younger than I am. We have agreed that the age difference is too great. And we have not had sex. She told me she doesn't see me in this light. None-the-less, we spend a great deal of time together and sometimes it feels like a a relationship. I mean, I have shown her attention that younger guys have not. And I have never sweated her about any kind of relationship. However, it still feels like a relationship. Put it like this...I sometimes feel really awkard when I date other women, who I know are into me. I have even felt guilty. What should I do? I mean....will she ever become interested in me, or am I just waisting my time ?

Answer 1

ask her and tell her your feelings and see were it go's cus you are wasten your time with her if you keep waiting on her and nothings going to happen

Answer 2

She only likes you as a friend... nothing more. The problem with men, they have a hard time being "just friends" with a woman. They find it hard to believe that a woman-man relationship can be only that. If you find it hard to believe, then test her.....ignore her for a week, dont call her, act like you are very busy and even mention that you have a date. If she likes you, You will be able to tell! Good Luck

Answer 3

Go for it!! Just don't push yourself on her. Show her all your attributes. There is absolutely nothing to stand in the way if you are both willing! I was engaged to a woman 31 yrs. younger. Age?- never an issue. Just treat her kind and she may come around!

Answer 4

ask her that , alota lota times girls are way attracted to older men , ud be surprized how much so, if shes hangin with u alot i think its cause she really wants u , i been there done that and i know how girls think , if shes hangin around u its cause she wants u