Theres a girl at my job whom I have been fooling around with for 3 months and she tells me she likes me a lot. We've kissed, I've sucked her breasts , felt her up and she's even put her han inside my pants and stroked me but when I try 2 go inside her pants or have sex with her ,she says stop because she has a boyfriend and will feel guilty if she cheats on him. I know she has a boyfriend but I really like her and I'm ok with that but my patience is running thin. If I wait it out do think she will eventually have sex with me? Any women ever been through this?....I am 35 and she is 25...Don't judge, just help please ok.Perhaps, I should've mentioned that she initiated it . At first I avoided it but she continued ...eventually I just fell for it and now I want it too. She tells me eventually she will have sex but just feels unconmftable right now.I truly believe she is too naive to be playing a game.Is it so uncommon to want a woman allready taken, because for some reason it feels right
2006-06-18 15:32:34 · 15 answers · asked by stiff_nhard 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh man, that's one of the oldest games in the players book. she has a b/f , the b/f is ignoring her emotionally but he still bangs her regularly. she is getting her feel good from you at work. she is getting the loving feelings from you and the attention from you , but she is hooked on the sex from him. and probably the living arrangements. she will string you along until there becomes a chance of her getting caught and losing it all. you are making her feel wanted and you are pursuing her, she has some romance in her life now. you would be better off ditching her and find someone that will give you 100%. sometimes you can give her enuf that she will ditch the boyfriend but don't count on it, she plays this game a lot, usually with the new guys that don't know her. she figures if you become new b/f , the same thing will happen between you and her as old b/f, so she will probably keep stringing you along. I mean it is pretty obvious all you want is in that azz anyways, what does she have to gain, trade one phuck for another one. she will still be emotionally starved when you win her over. she knows this
2006-06-18 15:43:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 8⤊ 1⤋
Why do you think women are bigger and better dogs than men? Because of the statement you made. You believe she is too naive to play games...LOL. That's exactly what she is doing. And she is getting away with it.
Anyways, about your situation. She is already cheating on her boyfriend so I don't see what the big deal is. If she will go all the way with you, I don't know. I've never cheated on a boyfriend. But if I were you, I would start to kind of ignore her and I bet you will get some sooner than you think.
2006-06-18 15:38:00 · answer #2 · answered by Truth Hurts 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The word loser comes to mind. Please...I can't believe you're telling the world this! Ever heard of love, marriage, commitment? I don't care what your ages are! Besides, she is cheating on her boyfriend just to do even half of what you described with you. If she only thinks having sex w/ another is cheating, then possibly she's having sex every night, and that's all she thinks about. lol I think you both sound like a couple of sluts!
2006-06-18 15:40:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The waiting game is for you to answer. You know her and you know you. It all comes down to if you want to wait or not. At some time or another the same waiting game will be about something else. Find you a woman who wants you for number one unless you like being the second to someone else.
2006-06-18 15:39:09 · answer #4 · answered by andyman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your not even doing enough to be classified as F*** buddies. she's hanging on to you just in case the other guy doesn't work out. a girl did this to my brother. she is immature and she needs to realize that. Drop Her Now before you do anything you might regret.
2006-06-18 15:37:22 · answer #5 · answered by ash4footnothin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is just proving that she is no way ready to commit to anyone, she will do the same thing to someone else when she is with you. She is not ready for a relationship, just flings...
2006-06-18 15:36:07 · answer #6 · answered by wolf1230pack 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it feels right go for it!!!!! not all girls are like this. I do not think she is naive...just playing around to see how you will react.
2006-06-18 15:36:23 · answer #7 · answered by Cootie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump this one, before you get to involved, there are other fish in the sea
2006-06-18 15:34:49 · answer #8 · answered by dahorndogd013 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she sounds like a bit of a tease. she also is already cheating. i personally think that you need to be careful.
2006-06-18 15:36:28 · answer #9 · answered by shakie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that you are not a toy for her and her breast.you need to have some fun too.
2006-06-18 15:39:37 · answer #10 · answered by looking1964 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋