I was at a wedding and i was looking at some cute guy. We danced and had fun. I soon found out that he was the ADOPTED son of my 2nd aunt. Does this make it wrong to date him?
2006-06-18 15:28:49 · 34 answers · asked by Jasmine 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No cuz he's technically not your family.
2006-06-18 15:31:54 · answer #1 · answered by ☼♣LiLy_KeTaMiNe♥♫ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No.Actually in the USA it is legal to marry first cousins.Not that I would,but it is legal and even safe to have children with a first cousin.It's only when you mix immediate family blood that the children come out messed up.What ever turns you on.You two are not family though at all.
2006-06-18 15:38:05 · answer #2 · answered by thecatladie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope!
The reason for not hooking up with people in your bloodline is for genetic reasons. Too close of a blood line will make deformed children. That's how it got into our customs - to prevent deformed children.
He is not in your bloodline, am I right?
If he's not in your bloodline, then you're only concerned about the SOCIAL STIGMA.
And I say, to HELL with what anybody else thinks! It's YOUR LIFE, YOU'RE A BIG GIRL - LIVE IT!
2006-06-18 15:34:25 · answer #3 · answered by John C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that it is wrong because he is not your blood relative just get to know him better if he is willing then talk to your aunt about the situation. On second thought talk to your aunt first then if she is okay with it proceed if he is interested.
2006-06-18 15:33:05 · answer #4 · answered by Snuggles 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope
2006-06-18 15:29:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's adopted, not blood related. Date away!
2006-06-18 15:31:18 · answer #6 · answered by Landslide 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I don't think so. The whole Idea for interfamily is the increased risk of birth defects from the same genetics. Go for it!!!
2006-06-18 15:31:16 · answer #7 · answered by Dumbass 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not in my book...You are not even blood related and you are distant related through adoption....it's fine if you like each other...It is NOT wrong.
2006-06-18 15:31:46 · answer #8 · answered by brad 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Genetically it's not wrong. Legally... if it's your 2nd aunt that might be ok.
2006-06-18 15:32:01 · answer #9 · answered by Mr. J 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no blood relation, so why would there be? In my opinion, not even on a moral stand point..
2006-06-18 15:32:18 · answer #10 · answered by ~ Rio ~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it doesn't because technically, he wasn't related to you in any way if he was adopted. Go ahead and get married if you want. ;)
JK!
2006-06-18 15:31:45 · answer #11 · answered by iluv_19990 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋