my boyfriend said it would turn him on if he could watch me give another guy oral i couldnt believe he said that it made alot of things run through my head do you think he really loves me if he would want to see me with another man??
2006-06-18 14:59:12 · 18 answers · asked by And life goes on 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ask him if he wants to video tape the two of you....you pleasing him
2006-06-18 15:03:58 · answer #1 · answered by ~ xMx ~ 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I came from a marriage where we were "swingers". At first it was great because I knew it made my husband happy....but after a while it started really bothering me that it DIDN'T bother him to see me with another man. When I said no more swinging, he left me for another woman. I cannot say for sure whether or not your boyfriend really loves you because that is a personal feeling unknown to others, but from experience, any man that would let another touch his woman in such an initimate and sacred way and not get bothered obviously has issues and doesn't realize how sacred sex and intimacy is. If you are not comfortable doing it, don't ever do it. You will regret it. If he loves you, he will respect that. IN the words of Janis Joplin, "Don't compromise yourself 'cause your all you've got". Take care and good luck.
2006-06-18 15:07:10 · answer #2 · answered by celticvampiria 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Nah, it does'nt mean he don't love you. My girlfriend talked ME into giving another guy oral while she watched. It just happened to be her "thing". I'd already done, and enjoyed giving oral to other guys, so it was'nt too far a stretch for us.
Try it out. If you enjoy oral, give it a shot. My doin it taught me that I get hot when a woman watchs me give head.......
2006-06-19 05:44:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might want to consider this. We all have fantasies. And we should be able to share them with our significant other. Just because you are repulsed by this you shouldn't consider him a freak. When you bind others you bind yourself. Talk to him as candidly as possible. Let him know how you feel. You have fantasies that might freak him out. An open mind is a healthy mind.
2006-06-18 15:12:51 · answer #4 · answered by victorezotti 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This may be a fanasty of his , but personally I feel it lacks respect for him to ask this of you .Loving someone ,you don't want to share them (sexually ) .A freind I knew did something for her guy ( he watched her with his freind .Anyway , a few weeks later the guys tried to make her their girlfreind , or she could move on .After cring because of the situation he asked her to be in , they stopped dating .( Surpised ?) I wasn't and now that she looks back she feels horrible if she sees them anywhere . Don't put yourself where someday it may come back and not in a nice way .
2006-06-18 15:09:32 · answer #5 · answered by Fairy Tale 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first i thought it was a big deal until u said u were 18. i think ppl at ur school are just to immature to handel that kind of situation. and i bet ppl who are spreading this may add some extra details so it sounds even worse that it really is. so yeah dont worry about other ppl. ur real friends will get you through this.
2016-03-26 21:04:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you comfortable doing oral on another ? If so, can I be the one ?
2006-06-21 05:20:30 · answer #7 · answered by accesscard 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
New Boyfriend time
2006-06-18 15:02:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats just sick...and really weird. most guys are protective and dont want their girl with another guy. My guess is since he is like opposite, this means there is something really wroung with him.
2006-06-18 15:03:16 · answer #9 · answered by Banana G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
three ways you can look at this he's
a. a swinger
b. gay
c.excuse for had/wants you to allow him to sleep with another girl
2006-06-18 15:06:26 · answer #10 · answered by rcrenzo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure why wouldent he? if you guys are open-minded and its good with everyone whats the problem. oveiously he has a fantasy about that . are you willing to be the one to fullfill it?
2006-06-18 15:02:19 · answer #11 · answered by pinksgirlfriend 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋