i recently found out he is lying i dont want to be with him but it is a year old habit. how do i turn the feelings off?
2006-06-18 14:53:24 · 12 answers · asked by ruthie 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You probaly won't get over the feelings ever. To get over him, date him. Then you'll see how much of a jerk he really is. And then you wont like him anymore.
2006-06-18 14:57:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
They will fade eventually, seems like everytime you speak or see them it starts all over, some people just have that hold on others, I know the feeling, been there done that as they say. it is a chemistry , that's how users are born, don't get used because of your attraction. there is a wierd psychology to the whole thing. this woman pursued me for like 2 years so when I finally decided I would give her a shot, I became the pursuer. she had the power then. I'm not sure of the dynamics of it, why it comes about , it has a lot to do with that wanting what you can't have. but it can drive you nuts.
2006-06-18 22:06:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well the only thing i can say is there are 3 thing to make a realionship work, trust,love,and respect if u dont have one of those u dont have a chance if u know he lies well then there is a trust issue how do u know he will not lie to u...or cheat on u and then lie about it...u need to weight the pros and cons. of what u are looking for...
2006-06-18 22:01:08 · answer #3 · answered by looneytoons_69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you even want to be with someone that you say lies??? And as well has another girlfriend??? Think about it, would you appreciate it if the situation were reversed???
2006-06-18 21:56:36 · answer #4 · answered by winona e 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How come I never find a girl like that?
2006-06-18 22:06:08 · answer #5 · answered by multidisciplinarian 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go clubbing. Find yourself a hot boy.
2006-06-18 21:55:44 · answer #6 · answered by Kari 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find another man.
2006-06-18 21:55:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl its lust just go on ahead and get a piece of the pie then leave him alone. you will be so over him...
2006-06-18 21:56:50 · answer #8 · answered by luv41anatha 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find a different guy that you like better
2006-06-18 21:57:56 · answer #9 · answered by dolphinegirl4060 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Turn your attention to me.
2006-06-18 21:56:21 · answer #10 · answered by Oriental Delight 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋