I don't want to hear from anybody to break up wit him.
2006-06-18 14:39:03 · 16 answers · asked by Heather 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well he lied to me about why he was suspended and he had said that he called the police officer at our school a lez(which she is). But he really stole Mrs.Dosher credit cards.
2006-06-18 14:44:33 · update #1
also mrs.dosher is the one who told me this on the last day of school when he was suspended
2006-06-18 14:46:26 · update #2
It all depends how bad the lie was..was it one little white lie that even you and I tell? Or was it one where you or someone else got hurt as a result? If it was the latter, then you should maybe kick his a** and let him know the consequences should he ever do it again!!
2006-06-18 14:43:18 · answer #1 · answered by jaye21 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MOST PEOPLE HERE HAVE SAID IT DEPENDS ON WHAT HE LIED ABOUT. WHAT DIFFERENCE DOES THAT MAKE? HE IS A DAMNED LIAR NOW. HE WILL LIE AGAIN AND AGAIN BECAUSE HE CAN AND YOU WILL LET HIM.
A RELATIONSHIP, NO MATTER IF IT IS B/F G/F OR MAN AND WIFE IS BASED ON MUTUAL ADMIRATION AND TRUST. HOW CAN YOU ADMIRE AND TRUST A CONFIRMED LIAR.
NOT TO MENTION HE STOLE AND STOLE CREDIT CARDS. WHAT WAS HIS INTENTIONS WITH THOSE. HAD TO BE LESS THAN HONORALBE. WHAT ELSE HAS HE STOLEN? NEXT STOP, PRISON.
THE ADMINISTATOR AT SCHOOL SHOULD ALSO BE CHASTISED TOO. SHE DIVULGED INFORMATION TO YOU THAT IS NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS AS YOU ARE NOT THE GAURDIAN, NOR A LEGAL REPRESENTATIVE OF HIS. THIS IS ILLEGAL IN THE U.S.A..
I KNOW YOU DON'T WANT TO HEAR THIS, BUT YOUR BEST MOVE IS TO DUMP HIM. THIS IS THE WAY TO STOP THE LIES. DON'T LOOK BACK EITHER.
2006-06-18 21:57:33 · answer #2 · answered by BOOMBOOMBILLY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he going to continue to lie to you?
Was the lie a big one or little one?
Did the lie effect you personally?
Will you ever be able to trust him again?
Does he want to win your trust back?
I think this question is more for you. What exactly can he do that you would feel is an appropriate explanation/punishment.
Why don't you want to break-up with him? Are you willing to accept this type of behavior over and over again?
Good Luck
2006-06-18 21:47:51 · answer #3 · answered by kukkanna 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him, get on his case. It really depends on what he lied about. If it is something serious then you should definately talk it out and if he did it out of bad intension then you need to break up with him. I know you didn't want to hear that, but it's what needs to happen.
2006-06-18 21:42:43 · answer #4 · answered by rkroxmysox915 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on the lie.. either way tell him how your feeling.. you probably hear this all the time.. but its true.. talk it over.. if it was an unforgiveable biggggg lie than ty and find some good in it.. or if its small and you can let it go.. DO Let it go.. just talk to him .. see what he was thinkin and if its work over able.. haemail me if you need anything..
2006-06-18 21:44:56 · answer #5 · answered by mandy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it seems to me that he has probably lied to you on other occasions to. also he seems to be quite a ""Rebel" of sorts. i wouldnt recommend u to stay with him because u might get dragged into watever hes doing, unless u can get him to stop it, otherwise u might be leaving him for the better or staying with him for the worse.
2006-06-18 21:46:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, first you can't ask a question and then tell us the answers you refuse to accept...that's stupid and that is what yahoo answers is all about.
secondly, our answers depend on what he lied to you about so you aren't giving us any information to go with so that we can help you.
2006-06-18 21:42:59 · answer #7 · answered by Truth Hurts 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Then forget about. Be happy. Lies are just words after all, right?
2006-06-18 21:41:30 · answer #8 · answered by will 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, don't break up with him...... Jump up and down on his heart and stay with him for no other reason than to be a thorn in his side!
2006-06-18 21:42:49 · answer #9 · answered by and,or,nand,nor 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I depends on what he lied about.then you should have the answer for your self.
2006-06-18 21:43:28 · answer #10 · answered by looking1964 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋