Well I can't say it all its too long.. me and this guy dated for 11 months I cheated on him first 5 times.... then 6 months later he broke up with me for another girl. They went out for 3 months now me and him date again... but he always lies about everything yesterday he told my best friend he liked her and 2 of his exes that he loved them... shud i date him still or not?? I jsut cant get over what we once had...
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2006-06-18 14:25:14 · 25 answers · asked by A Jah 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I once cheated my man who loves me so much..he loved me so much but he gave up on me..I was so hurt then, after all those things I realized at the end that I cant complete my life without him..But I let go of him with the other girl..It was torture.
After almost two years, We were back for good, I hope..(im depressed because his ex is starting to show up in the picture again, but I willl handle this situation)..
As far as I can analyze your situation, I think its good if you should stop dating him and find yourself time to realize and oversee the real scenario..I think he just wanted revenge, I may say.. or if you love him so much now, take the chances now, show to him the real you "loving him honestly"..
That is how it plays, you cant have a happy relationship without passing unto sacrifices..
I hope it helps you realize things..
2006-06-18 14:37:01 · answer #1 · answered by baby 1 · 9⤊ 3⤋
When you cheated on him, you lost his trust. When you started dating again, you probably didn't respect him as much because you were able to get away with cheating on him. It's a whole different ball-game once the trust has been broken. Your best bet is to move on and date other people. If you're not happy with your relationship, don't go out and cheat. Talk to your partner, tell him you have different feelings and that you'd like to see other people. Going behind someone's back is just a bad idea. You'll never get things back the way the once were.
2006-06-18 14:32:04 · answer #2 · answered by Landslide 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget this guy, he is not ready to take u serious. He still wants to play the field. No matter how hard u try, u cant get him to commit to u if he doesn't want to or isn't ready to. Wat ever u once shared with him, u can share with a more deserving & focused fella. This guy is still at the quantity stage, so u are just another conquest to him. So untill he realises about quality & wants it, don't take him serious. Just have him 4 fun & don't expect more, if u must have him that is. U aren't entirely blameless you know, he could be thinking he is only paying u back with the same coin. So in a nutshell, don't expect any thing meaningfull soon.
2006-06-18 14:42:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
aww well from the sounds of this really you need to ask him what he feels and when talking to you look you in the eyes and if he cant do that then honey your not going to be happy sorry to say this but your better off with out him :) i mean you want to be happy right then go out there and find a person who is as special as you i mean every one goes through what you are going through i have and it really hurt but the onlyways to show that u dont need him is to move on and find someone better :) some one who will make you happy and make you feel special just the way you should be :) but if he is telling ur best friend that he likes her then he is just a waste of time i mean you can do better than that. i know you feel that u cant get over what u once had but you wont be able to have it back cause to be honest i think its just youo who feels what u felt then and still feel now :) well i hope this help :) just remember your a special person and dont let now one tell you different, you can do better than him i know it feels that u cant at the moment but when the time is rigth you will see, things will be ad feel better than this just trust me :) xxxx if you ever need to talk my e-mail is kitkatblue@hotmail.co.uk
2006-06-18 14:38:52 · answer #4 · answered by kitkatblue3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would suggest that you guys just date as friends. There was a reason that you and him broke up, weather it be you wasn't happy with him or you cheating on him to find out what was missing. It sounds like you and him are very young and that you two need to just be friends. Friendships can blossom into something later on in life.
2006-06-18 14:30:15 · answer #5 · answered by Wifey K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
y'all never had anything! You cheated on him 5x's and he broke up with you and did the same the same thing-and according to you there is more! So no you should not still date him you should find out what love is first and then take it slow cuz you just out there playing right now. That is ok too.
2006-06-18 14:31:06 · answer #6 · answered by dynametric2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First check your relationship with him, if u really like him make him understand that you like him, make him feel that u really need him and then see he will never lie to u in his life time. If you are not so much bound to him and he is not so much important to u then i think you know the answer search for some one new. But be true to him only then you can except others to be true with you..
Good Luck.
2006-06-18 14:35:47 · answer #7 · answered by mak_signin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not , as for having fond memories of your past relationship, that's normal. The best thing about the guy you speak of , is that he is an ex-boyfriend and for the sake of your dignity keep it that way. No woman needs a man to define her.
2006-06-18 14:37:10 · answer #8 · answered by TWINKLES 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you shouldn't. There is too much bad history and you can't trust a liar. You should just wait until you meet a nice guy and don't cheat on him this time.
2006-06-18 14:28:34 · answer #9 · answered by nastaany1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion you aren't dating right now. Leave this guy alone and get on with your life. Believe me after a little time passes you won't remember what you had actually you probably won't remember his name.
2006-06-18 14:34:12 · answer #10 · answered by kukkanna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋