I am really like woundering if he is dead or just his parents got a devorse becuase i hate bring my dad up and if its just there devored then i wont feel so bad but if it that he is dead then i wont bring my dad up at all in any convo i dont know what to do? can u help?
2006-06-18 14:24:22 · 13 answers · asked by Ally 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Just ask him to tell you about his father. People who have lost a parent don't expect you to walk on eggshells about it.
2006-06-18 14:28:35 · answer #1 · answered by gcbtrading 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No do not ask if his dad is dead. How long have you known him? Not very long?
He shouldn't mind if you bring your dad up, but now that you have thought about it and it's a question for you, he will probably sense your hesitation. It will probably all work out some way. He will let you know!
2006-06-18 21:29:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how long you've been together. Have you not met his family? His mom? Any siblings? Why the interest in only his dad???
Just because you have a problem with talking bout your dad, doesnt mean that he does.
2006-06-18 21:36:01 · answer #3 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really want to know if his dad died. Just ask him. Or you could wait till you have married him and have three kids of your own...lol
The real question is : Is this guy a "boyfriend??"
If he is a friend and you can't TALK to him... Something is WRONG!!!
2006-06-18 21:45:52 · answer #4 · answered by zipahdee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relationships are based on honesty. And if this relationship is going anywhere shouldn't you know if his father is alive or what?
If you can't speak whatever is on your mind find another guy.
2006-06-18 21:29:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask him straight out. did your parents get a divorce, will i ever get the chance to meet him? if he tells u he died and he doesnt like talking about it just say sorry i didn't realise fair enough?
2006-06-18 21:28:59 · answer #6 · answered by Krissy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How can you even call him your boyfriend, and you don't know if his father is dead or alive? Is it me, or is there something wrong with this picture?
2006-06-18 21:40:28 · answer #7 · answered by joyfulnoise83 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would be in your best interest not to ask that question, your
boyfriend will tell you when and if he is ready too! so don't ask him.
2006-06-18 21:30:58 · answer #8 · answered by cololauren 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why don't you just ask "can i talk to you about your dad?"
2006-06-18 21:28:48 · answer #9 · answered by chillinvillain1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is your boyfriend how do you not know? does he not trust you with that information
2006-06-18 21:28:29 · answer #10 · answered by Thom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋