Was together for almost 2 years. Then one day he disappears for 4 days then calls from 400 miles from me. I found out he was married....We ended it. Well 3 months later we start talking and things went smoothly...then one day he gets mad and marries another lady....well he calls me after his new wife left him 2 months ago...
I dont know how to respond...or feel...and he wants to call again....
2006-06-18 14:03:33 · 23 answers · asked by Sugar_Plumzz 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Politely accept his apology and tell him Good Bye. I don't think he is going to change anytime soon. For some reason he seems to think he can turn to you when life gets a little tough and you will be there. I think he is using you, for whatever reason. Don't let him do this to you. I am afraid you will end up alone, again, and hating your self for letting this happen, again....
Do this for you!! :)
2006-06-18 14:20:58 · answer #1 · answered by BlueAngel 5 · 18⤊ 2⤋
Forget him, don't mess with these married men they are just cheating scum. And look at the game he's playin' he started thinking about you once his new wife left him because he feels alone and in dire need to have someone. Why didn't he hurry back to your side for a more serious relationship after he divorced the first wife, the one he cheated on with you. That would have been better but look at the crap he does. He's not worth your time sweetheart, you can find someone much much better!!!
2006-06-18 21:11:19 · answer #2 · answered by lasugarfree 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy sounds like trouble and only comes to you when its convenient for him. He needs to be a man and quit behaving in such a childish manor. I would suggest that you let him know that you are no longer his door mat to wipe his dirty feet on. Why can't he confide in you when he is seeing other women? This is something that would be a red flag that would bother me. Only you can regulate how a person treats you and if you keep allowing him to treat you with this type of disrespect he will continue to do this for the remainder of the relationship. You don't need a man that keeps popping in and out of your life, you need someone who is going to be stable for you and be a stepping stone for you. Also, if he keeps doing this with you, he just might be doing the same thing to other women. Think about it. God Bless and keep your head up.
2006-06-18 21:12:18 · answer #3 · answered by Wifey K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thank him for the apology and let him know you have moved on with your life as he should also do. He's calling you because you are familiar to him, and he used you badly once - why not again? Sounds like he's running out of women to cheat on!
2006-06-18 21:14:47 · answer #4 · answered by Decoy Duck 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him apology accepted that you appreciate it and keep moving on. He has put you through enough and there is no reason for you to pick up the pieces of his mess when he wants to run home to mommy to make it all better.
2006-06-18 21:06:59 · answer #5 · answered by yeller 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like a loser that wants to keep his fingers in your life--the fact that he can't seem to keep a woman happy should give you a clue. Don't let him back in--tell him that you are not interested and that you have moved on with your life. Then do it!
Good luck!
2006-06-18 21:07:37 · answer #6 · answered by besoseda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's after an easy lay, hon. Trust me!
His wife probably caught him cheating on HER too, so she rightly dumped him. Do NOT take him back, unless you want to get hurt and used again.
2006-06-18 21:05:56 · answer #7 · answered by googlywotsit 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is going to contact you leave it at that. Don't get into a relationship with him again could you trust that he wont leave you or marry someone else
2006-06-18 21:09:55 · answer #8 · answered by Ding 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would leave the loser alone it sounds like he is a player and he is just trying to get u where he wants and then crush u again... i have had this happen but it was a little different but he sounds like he just wants to have his cake and eat it to....
2006-06-18 21:12:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
PLEASE...be a woman of very few words, accept his apology, hang up your end of the phone, and move on!
2006-06-18 21:09:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋