I am a Mormon, about three years ago I met these two sisters at church at the same time and when I met them I had this overwhelming feeling that instant that I was going to marry one of them. Then later I had a dream which a voice told me that one of them would not love me as much if my physical appearance were to change. Then when I saw the one "I think I should" marry, a year later, again at church, we both came around the corner in the hallway and right when we made eye contact the lights flickered, exactly at that moment. I have also had dreams of talking to her dad asking for permission to marry her and even the walk down the aisle and they have felt so real. We have never really gone out just hung out as friends but there is no denying there is a connection, I think we both have held off on dating because we wanted to better ourselves before we go out. She is on a mission and due back in 7 months but I plan on leaving for a 2 yr mission in 4 months, should I write her, what 2 say
2006-06-18 13:58:19 · 5 answers · asked by defman88 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Trust me-put the trip off, you are not going to do any good in the trip anyway. Get things settled with the girl.
Then get out of that cult.
2006-06-18 14:04:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would tell her that you feel that there is a connection between the two of you and you are wondering if she feels the same way. If she says yes, put off the trip. If she says no, go. I wouldn't go into all the rest of it, about the feelings and the dreams of marriage. You don't want to overwhelm her.
2006-06-18 21:07:45 · answer #2 · answered by LindaLou 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope she is as romantic of a person as you are? She sounds like a wonderful woman and a trustworthy canidate as a wife. Remember all spirits are not from God, so we must test the spirits. How do we test the spirits? By the WORD of God. Tell her what you feel. You are her covering if you are married. Be strong and believing. God Bless
2006-06-18 21:04:19 · answer #3 · answered by soccergarysw 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life it too damn short to sit around wondering "IF" you should tell her...two years is a lifetime. Better to test the waters now than to drown in your sorrow later when she finds someone who was willing to take the risk.
2006-06-18 21:05:27 · answer #4 · answered by Carmie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, write her and tell her just how you feel before to grow to far apart.
2006-06-18 21:02:12 · answer #5 · answered by deerwoman777 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋