Why do you guy's think he said that? I'm just so coufused. I need feed back.
2006-06-18 13:43:51 · 21 answers · asked by buffyky_21 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
that means he is looking to be frineds with benefits and still wants to play the field, tell him when he IS ready come find you.
2006-06-18 13:44:57 · answer #1 · answered by Alicia F 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I guess this is rather common on dating relationship.
Yes, it means that he is not ready to give himself to you fully. Yet you still confuse about his words. What you really confuse about?
Is it that you start to question if you are not good enough to have someone to get serious with you? That may be something it is in you that is rather demanding?
I am sorry to say that at this point, I cannot provide you any feed back because there is so little information here. But you know yourself better then I do, may be you need someone who is not judging and not criticising to discuss this issue with.
Good Luck
2006-06-18 21:01:42 · answer #2 · answered by Sonny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He love's you, but not enough to be in a serious relationship...That's kind of iffy. I say you tell him that if he loves you and wants to be together than what's the wait for. Or he probably don't like the fact that he will be tied down if the relationship is serious, but if it's not that gives him the opportunity to go out and do him. I say give him a choice, but if you really love him yah will work things out and everything will be fine.
2006-06-18 20:52:35 · answer #3 · answered by *WaTeR* 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well he might have said that because he really does love you but might be afraid to have a serious relationgship right now.But you know if you give him some time he might come around to the idea of a serious relationship
2006-06-18 20:49:40 · answer #4 · answered by cindy35611 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means he's not ready to settle down with you and wants to test the waters and see what other girls are out there. I'm sorry if this seems harsh, but your best bet is to let him go and move on with your life. If he comes back to you, then it will be up to you to decide if you want to give him a second chance.
2006-06-18 20:46:25 · answer #5 · answered by aqsgtriad 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some men are afraid to commit to another because of one thing...freedom. They see this as athreat to there everyday life and also compare this to other friends they know. Friends can be a big influence as well. If you love him then just accept this information and let him know that you understand. maybe he will see that you care enough not to push and put fresh thoughts about you two in his mind.
2006-06-18 20:48:34 · answer #6 · answered by christineh689 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a book you need to read immediately. The book is He is just not that into you. It will explain to you that a boyfriend who would treat you like this is not worth your time. The book also teaches you how to avoid men like your ex in the future. Make him your ex as this man is just not that into you.
2006-06-18 20:49:03 · answer #7 · answered by stew 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll agree with the friends with beifits answer and add that if he really LOVED YOU he would get over himself and get himself ready for a serious relationship
2006-06-18 20:47:45 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, he probably does love you but doesn't think he actually can love someone. He probably isn't ready for a serious relationship.
2006-06-18 20:50:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If his not ready for one then he doesn't love you it's just a way to keep you stuck on him and it's just a another way to keep you thinking that he loves you when the truth is he doesn't.
2006-06-18 20:55:14 · answer #10 · answered by blackfoxcoz69 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
perhaps that all it is more confusion,he is trying desperately to keep you even though he has no intent on any other kind of relationship with you,you are like his back up. dump him,tell him its a little to late to be saying such things now.
2006-06-18 20:47:19 · answer #11 · answered by deerwoman777 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋