is it wrong for my boyfriend to tell me that he gets aroused by looking at other women?

Question

i asked my boyfreind what turns him on and he said he gets aroused by looking at other women he said its not cheating what do you think does that mean hes a pervert?it kind of upset me do you think he should of told me that?

Answer 1

Well, let's be honest - all guys look at other women, its in their nature and doesn't mean it's cheating.

Let's be honest with soemthing els - NO, he should not have told you it arouses him!! He should tell you that it's natural for him to look, just as your head would turn if, say Brad Pitt, walked past. However to say that he gets turned on is a bit below the belt

Answer 2

No he's not a pervert he's a male. A as a male he get worked up when he see women, it's normal.

It really shouldn't upset u too much because u did ask. He told u because u ask, would u rather he lied?

Thats why it's best sometimes tnot to ask because if u get a answer u don't like, u only have urself to blame for asking in the first place

Answer 3

He is a man, of course he is going to look. Its like window shopping. You can look but cant touch. Nothing wrong with it. If you don't like the answers he tells you, then maybe you shouldn't ask him questions like that. He must be young, No man in there right mind would actually tell that to there women. Its not what they want to hear. They want to hear that it is her and ONLY her. Smack him upside the head. Just for being an idiot.
Good luck. It doesn't mean he loves you any less. He is just not the sharpest pencil in the draw.

Answer 4

He is being honest with you and you should admire him for that! He is not a pervert!

Many of us men get sexually aroused by seeing other women. I get very strong erections and my girlfriend just goes wild. She will often suggest we go places where there are beautiful women nearby and she gives me hand jobs as I look out at the other women!

Answer 5

He shouldnt of told u that... all guys look at girls every now and then... sometimes we cant help it and it is the same with girls.. but if he said that then he isnt dedicated to u or ur relationship. My X used to get mad at me for checking out other girls even when we were together. I wish I would have never done it because I found out later that she was all I ever wanted to look at and that when I looked at other girls I would tell her I didnt mean anything by it and I never realized the impact it had on our relationship.. If he wont stop doing it then u need to do something. Dont put up with it.

Answer 6

Well, it may be hurtful to be told this--but at least he's being honest (more than I can say for a lot of guys).

As long as he's only looking, and never touching, I don't see a problem.

Answer 7

I don't know if he is a pervert or not; he sounds like a typical male. At least he was honest. Be careful what you ask for.

Answer 8

Sounds like if other women are turning him, I would let him go get em!! If you dont do the job for him, let him move on. That is rude and crude and down right slime!! Dont waste your time, energy and love on a loser!! Find a man that is interested in and turned on by U!

Answer 9

I'd hate to say it but that is Cheating, he is lusting after other women and committing fornacation. He is even probaly thinking about them when he makes love to you. Set Him Straight or let him go!

Answer 10

Men are always checking out other women. But your boyfriend was being very insensitive in telling you this, he should have kept it to himself.