im pregnant and im 16... how do i tell my mom.. my only parent???

Answer 1

No one can tell you exactly what to say because odds are no one on here knows exactly how to approach your mom with this type of topic. I would tell your mom you need to talk to her, it is acceptable to have a mutual friend there if you need to. I would begin by saying something like...mom, I know that you have always tried to be there for me and do the best that you could for me and that's why I am coming to you with this problem. Then just say it...mom, I know that you are going to be angry, disappointed, and upset but I need your help right now, because I think I am pregnant. Then prepare for tons of questions!! I wish you luck, I have been in your shoes...if it helps any, that was 6 years ago, and even though it was a little rough in the beginning, when my son was born all of the bad feelings seemed to take back seat to the happiness. Try to remember that whatever your mom says, she probably just wanted better things for you than what she thinks you will be able to have now. Follow your heart and your dreams...good luck with the little one!

Answer 2

You know this is a very difficult situation. You need to start thinking about a lot more than just telling your Mother. But telling her would be a huge step because she will only love and supoort you and you'll definatly need it. Just say Mom I have to tell you something and I'm really scared but I need your supprt and I don't want this to start a fight. Tell her that you was having sex with whomever and you guys didn't use the right protection and now your prego and scared. she will be there for you, and if she's not there are places, like churches and planned parenthood and even your local health department that can give you a hand physically and mentally. Good luck and stay strong.

Answer 3

It may be hard to tell her, but what will you say when she suddenly see's your showing all the signs being pregnant? You have to tell her, when you do, just tell her that you need to talk to her with no interuptions. Then just come out and say that your pregnant, thats probably the only way you can tell her, theres no way around the truth, nomatter how much you avoid the truth, or drop hints, just say "Mom, I'm pregnant", that may seem easier than said. Good luck to you.

Answer 4

Sweetie, this is probably one of the hardest things you will ever have to do...telling your mom you are pregnant.

Like the first poster said, you just sit her down and tell her. The sooner the better.

You have options. Just be strong and don't let anyone force you to do anything you don't want to do.

If you would like to talk directly, my email contact info is on the profile page (I'm pretty sure it is).

Answer 5

As a mother myself, we are more understanding than you think. My 14 year old daughter was pregnant herself. I was upset that she was but I didnt scream and yell. I helped her through the pregnancy, she wanted to keep the baby, and now I have a very beautiful 2 1/2 yr old grandson. Just sit your mom down and talk to her, she might get upset but she will still love you.

Answer 6

I even have been there and executed that. tell them formerly it truly is basically too late. they are going to be much extra disenchanted in case you wait. you ought to start seeing a doctor in case you haven't any longer already. they'll yell, scream and make threats yet interior the tip it is going to all be ok. take a seat which contain your boyfriend and function a plan and solutions for each and all of the questions they are going to throw at you. Be mature, do no longer whine or cry. maximum of all end your preparation. basically considering the fact which you have a sprint one does not propose you won't be able to flow to college. After this errors do no longer make it back. guard your self. in case your are worried approximately how your father is going to react perchance you could tell his mothers and fathers first. in the event that they take it nicely enable them to nicely known there's a danger your father could replace into violent. i'm particular they do no longer choose something to ensue to their destiny grandchild. sturdy success. P.E. I informed my mom on my own and he informed his. His mom took it extra clever than mine which did no longer communicate over with me for 2 months. I went to stay with my sister for a at the same time as. by making use of the time i replace into due my mom had gotten over it.

Answer 7

I know it will be hard to tell her but you need to do so right away. You will need to start seeing a Dr. and get medical care. Your Mom may be hurt and/or upset at first but she is your Mother and she loves you and she will be there for you. I wish you all the best and hope you have a healthy baby.

Answer 8

Think about what your options are. She may ask you what you are going to do. If you have done some fairly realistic thinking about what you & the father plan to do, she may be a little less angry. If you just go to her, she might be thinking that you are expecting her to fix the situation that you created. She's your mom. Hopefully after she gets over the shock she will be supportive whatever you decide to do.

Answer 9

Just sit her down and tell her. Not only will you have life changing consequences but so will she. This will greatly affect her life as well as hers. Just don't consider an abortion. Its murdering human life and people who abort often carry guilt all their life. Maybe consider giving the child up for adoption. You are very young to take on the responsibilies of single parenthood.

Answer 10

Take her somewhere nice and public with alot of cops and just sit down with her and first ask her "Mom what will happen if I get pregant?Will u get mad at me?? If it's a good answer tell her the truth if it's not wait 1 month till u tell her.Hope u have good luck!!!!