i very rarely go out and he goes out at least once a week
2006-06-18 12:02:53 · 15 answers · asked by KNOW IT ALL 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
When you have a man, you all should be having a good time TOGETHER. If he does not want you around when he is having a good time ALONE, then it is time for his to be alone all the time.
Truthfully, he's not alone when he is out clubbing. He's either taking another lady with him or he's meeting some skanky tramps there at the club. I can see maybe if he is going to one of his friends house to hang out once in a while, but partying without you is unacceptable.
Get rid of him before he gives you some funky disease.
Dump him and get someone else who enjoys spending time with you. You deserve much better than the disrespect he's dishing out to you.
2006-06-18 12:16:02 · answer #1 · answered by happybujok 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Him saying that is just like him saying thast he doesnt want you to go bcuz he is cheating or he wouldnt have fun like usual so maybe when he goes you shood go to the same club with some friends and maybe spy as lil
2006-06-18 19:08:05 · answer #2 · answered by Brandee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're so gullible. He's most likely cheating on you or doing untrustworthy things at the club. Take it from me. I'm a guy. "It wouldn't be the same without you" means "I don't want you to see the things I do." Especially at a club.
At a chess tournament...that's a different story.
2006-06-18 19:10:37 · answer #3 · answered by Isles1015 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It wouldn't be the same. If you go then you will take all his attention away when he wants to hang with his friends and talk crap. That guy time is important but he should still set aside some time for you.
2006-06-18 19:07:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you go with him he wont be able to hit on the hotties. and flirt with them dance with them what not if you where their. thats why i used to go to the clubs and not take my boyfriends. flirting isnt cheating a little dancing is prob ok too. but once you start gropping and grinding that kinda crosses the line. i would tell him if he can go without you you can go to places without him. see what he thinks if he jumps on that idea you might want to get rid of him cause he is prob a cheatin bastard
2006-06-18 19:08:51 · answer #5 · answered by mk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why don't you go out with your gf's once a week, it's healthy for you guys to have time with friends without the parnter around all the time. we all need our space, it does not mean he's going to get up to mischief, trust him, or find someone u to trust.
2006-06-18 19:07:56 · answer #6 · answered by springo88 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys need guy time, if you're his girl and hes hanging with the boys, he probably feels he cant be the same way if it was just him and his boys.
2006-06-18 19:06:26 · answer #7 · answered by Minnie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stock your fridge with every brand of beer. When he says they have free hordurves, have a bunch of his favorite snacks in the fridge. If he says it's conversation with his friends......Grab him by the shirt collar and begin with, "You want conversation blah, blah, blah, blah...........I'll give you conversation...blah, blah, blah. You S$^, you're married now and you ain't going nowhere, blah, blah, blah". He should get the message.
2006-06-25 15:51:01 · answer #8 · answered by ed 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think i would start to wonder exactly why he didnt want me going. question him about it. even if he goes, show up yourself. he doesnt own the place and your more than welcome to show up at the same place he is. go out and have some fun!
2006-06-18 19:07:14 · answer #9 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to learn better English. Give the guy room to breath. Don't be clingy
2006-06-18 19:06:19 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋