Most of the girls are into guys who are loud, obnoxious, and drinkers. What is wrong with the nice reserved type of guys who aren't party animals?
2006-06-18 11:43:34 · 33 answers · asked by big_j_gizzy 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I find that the reason (not many women either know or own up to this) is that we want to "fix" them. We enjoy the fun because the loud ones are funny and confident but we also see a challange. In the long term we think that we need to fix/change them to be "good" men. A good man that is already "okay" makes no challange. For a lot of girls the more screwed up the more attractive they are....for some.
2006-06-18 12:08:37 · answer #1 · answered by Susan G 1 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Well im not most girls and i dont like guys that are loud and obnoxious. Most of my friends dont either. SO nothing wrong with nice guys who aren't party animal. I have a bf and hes a nice guy not a party animal.
2006-06-18 11:47:55 · answer #2 · answered by Megan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you would like an old ladies opinion.... My daughter who is 20 and is very popular at college, and VERY pretty , 104 lbs, 5ft 2in., always went out with the party animals and bad boys. This year she said she was fed up with being hurt and stopped dating all together. Her friend introduced her to a young man she knew and my daughter accepted a date from him on a whim. She now is seeing him on a regular basis. He isn't very good looking, he is tall 6ft. 3 in., he doesn't party, he doesnt drink, he is a paratrooper and is active in the service, is serving his country in the reserves, and treats her like she is a lady. If you are a nice guy hold out for a while there are some nice girls out there looking for someone, just give it time.
2006-06-18 11:50:14 · answer #3 · answered by goodbye 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll very rarely get an honest answer to a question like this. Women will always answer in a way that reflects good upon themselves.
However, the answer is fairly simple. Loud, obnoxious guys are more alpha, which women instinctively are programmed to desire. So to women, the guy will seem fun loving and confident, instead of obnoxious and loud.
2006-06-18 11:48:18 · answer #4 · answered by entivore 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would not say most girls.
My man (who I have been with for 9 years) is quiet and reserved. Doesn't drink and isn't obnoxious. He can get frustrated but I tell him to chill because it is just not attractive when he loses his cool.
The guys you describe drive me nuts. I guess that's because I am not a party girl. I like to just hang. Going to a friends is cool but loud crazy parties are way outta my like zone.
Maybe if you are after the girls who like party animals you need to ask yourself why.
If you are a nice guy, find a girl who wants a nice guy. trust me, with all the jerks out there guys like you are rare.
If you really are a nice guy you'll find someone in no time.
2006-06-18 11:50:46 · answer #5 · answered by Liz L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not into guys who are loud, obnoxious, and drinkers. I tend to like guys who are more reserved and not party animals.
2006-06-18 11:47:16 · answer #6 · answered by čŖåŻęĤ! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who said i was...i hate obnoxious, loud and the drinkers...i don't mind them drinking but not to the point where they are a s s holes...i go the nice type who aren't much of a party animal like myself
2006-06-18 11:48:47 · answer #7 · answered by orange_crush_05 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There isn't anything worng with those kind of guys. A lot of those girls are just looking for a good time, and there aren't looking to go anywhere in life. A lot of those women like those guys when they aren't drinkers, and stick by them when they do drink. The women think these men are just exactly what you said.
2006-06-18 11:48:48 · answer #8 · answered by mandi88_bailey05_ray 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-14 07:03:44 · answer #9 · answered by leong 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My guy is a drinker and he isnt loud or obnoxious and isnt a party animal and he is very reserevd.
2006-06-18 11:45:34 · answer #10 · answered by baby_luv 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋