weve been together three years i know she loves me and cares but she feels that we are to different but we gotten allong so well and just went to maui together and loved it but she wants to see if she can do better on her own
2006-06-18 11:13:49 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Do you really want to know how long before she misses you, or do you really want to know how long before missing you makes her come back?
If you've been together 3 years, she probably started missing you the moment she walked away. And she misses you right now, and she will continue to miss you. If she really does love you (as you say) then there will be a part of her that will always miss you.
Does that mean she's coming back? Not necessarily. Please don't expect her to. You need to accept if she's chosen to move on with her life. If you expect her to come back, you will eventually get angry when she doesn't, and likely end up driving her even futher away from you. If there really is any chance that she's coming back, and your relationship can start again, you need to give her the space to come to that decision. But please, don't sit around waiting for it to happen. Grieve and start to put your life back together.
2006-06-18 11:20:28 · answer #1 · answered by butireallyam_nikkijd 3 · 15⤊ 5⤋
Well I'm sorry to hear that, but she might already miss you truthfully. Women can hide a lot of our feelings and we learn that from a young age because everyone around us is always do something that will either make us mad, upset, exicted, but almost all of of us learn to hide it. It will take time, but try giving her some space. That is most likely what she needs and needs to feel independent for a while. You two were together for so long that there is no way that either of you right now are completely ok with this break-up. She will miss you, and you miss her. I hope everything works out.
2006-06-18 11:20:45 · answer #2 · answered by mandi88_bailey05_ray 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she has already moved on. She may realize in a few more days that she really does miss you and wants to be with you, but it may take a long time (years) for her to realize what a great guy she had & then it will be too late for her b/c you have moved on. Give it time, you will find that perfect "one" someday.
2006-06-18 11:20:00 · answer #3 · answered by mcmillae 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is missing you. Just b/c you miss someone is not reason to get back with them. It sounds like you can do better on your own too.
2006-06-18 11:17:20 · answer #4 · answered by pms247 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you want to be with someone that says they want to see if they can do better on thier own?? Sounds like you might be better off. Time heals and if you keep busy, and don't dwell on thoughts of her, soon it will be ok and you will not be hurting as bad.
2006-06-18 11:21:37 · answer #5 · answered by fligrl05 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it a week.. But I had a long term relationship and me and my ex broke up a month ago and i still miss him
2006-06-18 11:20:40 · answer #6 · answered by Megan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she misses you already. she probly has just realized how serius your relationship really is. Maybe she just wants to see if she can support herself so she'll know that in the future she will be able to support you too. Give her space, use this time to figure yourself out too
2006-06-18 11:15:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well that was the same between me and my ex and i dumped him and still dont miss him were to gether for 3 1/3 years
2006-06-18 11:20:42 · answer #8 · answered by elizabeth c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it were right, give her time and she will come back. But if shes not your forever, then you will have to begin the healing process. Tears dry up, and cuts develop scabs. Trust me you will feel better soon enough.
2006-06-18 11:16:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she broke up with you then she anti gone never miss you. because she probably didn't have no feelings for you if y'all broke up three darts ago. child what you need to do is go find somebody that's right for you.
2006-06-18 11:17:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋