Can you make out and stuff like...passionatley w/ your boyfriend w/o making it seem like you want sex? Serious answers only please
2006-06-18
11:08:53
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➔ Singles & Dating
also, how do you know if you're in love. This boy makes me feel somethin but I don't know what it is
2006-06-18
11:09:15 ·
update #1
thanks everyone. I think I might be in love. I have the worst butterflies IN THE WORLD and I think about him day and night
2006-06-18
11:15:49 ·
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Yeah definatly! Me and my boyfriend are extremely passionate. You cant explain to someone else what its like to be in love. You just know when you're in love. Theres a different stare, different butterflies, a different smile... its just amazing.. and its totally unexplainable.. good luck with your relationship!
2006-06-18 11:12:12
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answered by Anonymous
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My boyfriend and I are fine just making out without having sex. We have a good enough relationship that we know when we can just feel the moment and kiss or when to make it lead to more. And... when I first fell in love with my boyfriend, I just got a feeling that rushed from my head to my stomach and it felt like butterflies.
2006-06-18 18:12:25
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answered by Anonymous
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A book that I recommend to you is "Every Young Woman's Battle" It teaches about sexual integrity, what to look for and how get the most out of a loving relationship. You need answers, so you should find out as much as you. The person you have sex with should be the person you marry. You owe it to your future husband, and possibly your children if you have any. Memories last a life time. Who ever you sleep with will be remembered for as long as you live.
2006-06-18 18:20:16
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answered by sentrasersr20de 2
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You just need to tell him what the limits are. If he doesn't abide by them, then he's not worth your time.
And as for love, if you don't know his middle name, you probably don't love him. Imagine yourself cleaning his vomit off the bathroom floor after he's gotten the stomach flu, or picking up his dirty underwear on the way to the washing machine. When you think you can stomach that and still find him even remotely attractive later, it's love.
2006-06-18 18:14:01
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answered by Luann 5
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sweetie, being in love is not like eating your favorite ice cream. you don't know that you are in love. rather, you choose to love, and convince yourself that you are loving. have you ever told a lie about yourself or something else, so much that even you started believing that it was true? being in love is like that. you tell the other person, give them your word, and live consciencously true to it. they say communication increases commitment. anyways, you never know whether or not you are in love, you just choose to be in love. i hope that makes any sense.
from a guy to you, i aught to tell you that there is no time, never, will any man make out without sex in mind. we, men make out because we want sex. be it passionate or just a simple peck on the cheek...
2006-06-18 18:16:26
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answered by Eric M 1
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If you draw the line beforehand and he is a decent guy, he'll agree with your wishes. You can make out without it leading to sex. Just tell him you aren't ready for sex but you still want to makeout.
2006-06-18 18:12:32
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answered by Anonymous
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Well, you can make out like that. But, the guy is going to have the biggest erection.
And, he'll have to masturbate a few times when he gets home.
But, I have NEVER had a girl make out passionately without it leading to intercourse.
2006-06-18 18:11:15
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answered by Anonymous
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ok this is how i put it A kiss leads to A finger and the finger leads to A suck and that suck lead to A **** and then you got the thing sex is like math you add the beds minus the cloths divide the legs and hope you don't multply
2006-06-18 18:13:18
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answered by lilangelbabe133 2
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Tell him that you can fool around, but your not ready for anything more. That way it takes the pressure off you both . Talking is the key. Tell him what you will do, but make sure he knows what you won't that way he won't expect anything more.
2006-06-18 18:10:59
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answered by pms247 3
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Sure, and spell out the limitations first. OK?
2006-06-18 18:10:40
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answered by Anonymous
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