Tue. we agreed we both want a relationship and kissed.
Thur. we had sex
Fri. we had sex
Sat we had sex
Sun. his hot water heater broke and he cancelled
Mon. I brought him lunch, offered to meet him for dinner but he declined. He was too tired for company Monday night.
Tues. He was too tired for company.
Wed. is his buddy night. we made plans for Thurs. and I saw him put his arm around another girl and put his fingers in her hair and giver her a scalp massage AT WORK and in front of me but I don't think he knew I saw him.
Thurs we had dinner date and I asked him about it. We argued all evening. He was comforting her b/c someone had died.
Fri. he went to lake w/ some girls
Sat he went to movies with friends and stayed late. He did call as I requsted.
I don't think he's acting like a guy who wants a gf. He's 33 and never been married. No kids, no pets. He is super smart and reads and writes and plays video games. Why did he chase me? What should I say to him tonight? I'm 32.
2006-06-18 11:07:34 · 8 answers · asked by icu812 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh darlin, I feel ya'. I had (or have) that same problem. My gut is 37 and I am 26. You would think they would have the b*lls to tell you that they just wanna f**k. I told my guy that and he laughed saying that if he really said that then I wouldn't give him any. Men don't understand honey that women are soooooooo dangerous when it comes our feelings and our sex life (and pls don't combine the two). I'm sorry he did that to you. But tell him straight forward that if all he wants to do is screw then he needs to tell you and allow you to be woman enough to make your own decision. Good Luck!!!
2006-06-18 11:19:32 · answer #1 · answered by vernise2679 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Say, "Goodbye, Buster!"
This guy got from you all he ever wanted. Now he's out after more from someone else. He views women as conquests waiting to made by him. He probably even keeps a score card. Stop being thick and pick up on the messages. He's done with you. You should be done with him too.
I'm 64.
Good luck.
2006-06-18 18:18:06 · answer #2 · answered by quietwalker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've gotta be kidding me. You are 32 years old and can't figure out that you were an fling. He chased you because he wanted exactly what you gave him, and then the thrill was gone, and he's off in pursuit of another honey. He used you, dear heart, in the worst possible way. Take him out to dinner and about half-way thru, throw a drink in his face and walk away.
2006-06-18 18:14:24 · answer #3 · answered by wild1handy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like all he was interested in was the sex. Not you. Seems as if he was laying the charm on thick to get you to do what he wanted and then ignored you afterwards. He's just a jerk.
There are some genuine nice guys out there though, you should say goodbye to this slimeball and go find one.
2006-06-18 18:20:50 · answer #4 · answered by Tanya 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him you dont think its gonna work. it seems like all you have really done is have sex and his friends are more important. why didnt he invite you to the beach or the movies. if you are his girlfriend he should include you. you might just be a booty call. get out while you can. once you get in to deep you got to many emotions involved to think rational.
good luck
2006-06-18 18:14:54 · answer #5 · answered by mk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh sweety , this guy sound like he hasnt grown up , dont kick urself about it , u sound like a nice chik , and he is just playing around, my suggestion would be to walk away ...
But eather way , you should get guys to chase you once in a while... it good... otherways they loose intrest ... But hold ur head up high!
:)
2006-06-18 18:13:19 · answer #6 · answered by alexi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him Bye. He obvisously doesnt want a relationship
2006-06-18 18:13:36 · answer #7 · answered by Megan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how about goodbye
2006-06-18 18:11:37 · answer #8 · answered by adam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋