Why is my son mad at me.?

Question

I got my son a bra for his birthday because to be honest... he is a tub of lard. Now he won't talk to me, how do I get him to talk to me?

Answer 1

You are funny!
Happy Fathers' Day!

Answer 2

Hi, He might be younger than you, but you should treat him with the same RESPECT you would treat anyone.

You wouldn't do that to say a neighbor or co-worker so why do you want to hurt your son?

You do know that it was a hurtful thing to do, don't you? You as a parent have the responsibility to act with maturity and wisdom. The easiest way to maturity and wisdom is plain old "COMMON SENSE". And "COMMON SENSE" says you should always try not to hurt your loved ones, they can get abuse anywhere.

Home should be a protective environment, yet you still should be able to try out new ideas with that safety net. You know, figure things before you take them out into the world. A growing kid should not have that taken from them.

Some things are learned out in the street, but you don't want your kid to learn everything out there do you?

Keep on humiliating him and your parental responsibilities will no longer be within your power. Now, who else can teach children better than their parents? Keep the happy attitude, just rewrite the jokes, okay?

Answer 3

You need to have a macho camping adventure to boost his sense of manliness. You don't want him to turn into a f**, do you? Have him invite some buddies over and pitch a tent in the backyard. Make him wear his bra around the other fellas. Encourage them to compliment him on his bust and discuss healthy topics such as football, bullying the weaker, and jerky. This will boost your son's self-esteem but still keep him low enough so that he knows he's a fat*ss.

Answer 4

You hurt him and he doesn't need that.. Can you imagine what he must get from other people?? If there is only one person in this world that he can go to and not have to worry about being judged, hurt, or mocked it should be his parent. You need to love him and if you have to, put him on a diet, but don't make him feel terrible because he'll want to eat to fill up the empty space in his heart where his father should be. Be open minded and not cruel or cold-hearted. Bless ya...

Answer 5

What happen to love your child unconditionally? That was the cruelest thing a mother could do. If you have a problem with your sons weight, that kind of ridicule will never help. Frankly he has every right to be mad

Answer 6

It is not your job(or anyone else's) responsibility to make someone feel bad about themself.Why would your son listen to anything you had to say after that. I really think that you are pulling our leg but I can just imagine someone thinking that it would be a novel way to get their point across.Not funny just cruel Sorry.

Answer 7

he is mad because you embaressed him. there might of been a better way to explain to him that being obese is unhealthy. possible taking him to a hospital and showing him how overweight people are more likely to suffer. maybe giving him something that would help him loose the wieght instead. he needs encouragegment and not embarresement.

Answer 8

Ok this is really getting stupid, (a bra for his b-day)maybe you should try excerising with him instead of calling names, or were you the one who likes to call them!!!!!!! take the goodies away that you like to buy at the store, or get rid of the x-box and the game boy and the computer. and get out and exerise.

Answer 9

my son is fat, but i would have him out running 10 laps before i bought him a bra. he just spends too much time on his x-box

Answer 10

Mayne.. that was low.. Maybe give him some money to make it feel better! I would feel better the very second you give it to me! :) Even though I'm a tomboy.. I would still be happy!

Answer 11

what in the world where you thinking to get him that dumb present. to be honest with you all i could say is just apoligize to your son and good luck if he talks to you because if i was in his shoes i wouldnt even talk to you either.......