why wouldnt a woman want to go out with me?

Question

surley im not that bad, help please i need advice on this stuff, tips on confidence and stuf also please, thank you.

Answer 1

Everybody gets rejected at one point or another don't let it lower your self-esteem, but let it sculpt and help define the vision of a woman that you will one day marry.

Answer 2

This is a difficult question to answer without knowing who you are, but Ill give you my best answer based on generalizing on the average man.

Some men have a tendency of blooming at a later time than others. So do not feel bad or desperate if by this time you have not found "the one".

While some men have their lives, businesses and families set by the time they are in their mid twenties, there are the others who are in their mid thirties and have not finished their education etc.

This isnt a bad thing, as priorities are different among males.

I am assuming that you are well aducated. The type of man who is very good when it comes to books but horrid when its time for a relationship with one of us ladies.

Perhaps then, you can try reorganizing your entire schedule-your whole life,

Try to determine the cause of rejection. In order to solve a problem one must dissolve it from the root of its cause.

Is it bad hygene, yellow teeth can be a turn off.
Overweight, perhaps you can diet.

Now these are silly presumptions because true love isnt based on these factors, but consider the fact that a first impression is.

Humans cannot avoid making assumptions about others based on the way they look. Therefore, I propose to you a change in your physiological character.

After that, evaluate your personality. Pessimism and self-victimization are only good to spell distance. People are attracted to positive mindsets by nature.

Also, smile at others. Youll be amazed at the power of this.

Answer 3

maybe you come off a certian way that is a turnoff for most women. after looking at your other questions, no you are not ugly. a lot of us out here that have matured know that looks fade and its whats inside that counts. when you talk to a woman, do you be yourself? dont put on a show because theres going to be a time that the curtians will open and the real you will be there, and you want someone that will like you for who you are. as far as confidence, try something new. join up with a club, or get involved with sports. people that are connected with others tend to have more confidence in themselves.

Answer 4

Your not a bad looking guy.Maybe you don't approach a women right.Peolple always say just be who you are but while that is so true, Be polite women like a man who's polite while being humorous.Pay her a compliment.Tell her about yourself but keep the conversation flowing whiile asking alot of questions about her women love that.talk to her some before you ask her out

But like someone already said everyone goes through rejection at one time or another.Just keep looking(hey their may have been something wrong with her)If your a great guy and you know it keep asking women out and being yourself and having fun.you'll find someone soon.

Answer 5

As I can see from the picture, you are cute, so there's absolutely nothing wrong with your appearance. I found for you some sites where you can find all the tips you want. If you want my advice, do you what a woman really want for a man? LOVE AND RESPECT! But be careful, YOU DON'T HAVE TO BE A ''TEDDY BEAR'' TO SHOW HER THESE THINGS. You know what I mean! I wish goo d luck from the bottom of my heart!!!

Answer 6

Not to sound harse but it may be the way you look and dress. If you dont dress well you come off a certain way. It also has to do with the way you carry yourself. If you think you are good then thats how others will percieve you. You have to believe you are what you want to be before someone else can.

Answer 7

I'm sure plenty of women would go out with you. That is, if you are considering real women and not just size 2 models. Just be nice, be yourself, and no cheesy sexual pick up lines. Look into her eyes when you talk to her. Make her laugh. Make her feel special. Good luck!

Answer 8

Maybe you don't seem confident enough and don't take on the oppurtunities you're given and think more positive. Always give it a go. If it doesn't work out, there's someone else out there.

Answer 9

do u get all tongue tied when u talk to a woman cuz that could b why just remember if your a nice guy than there is no reason for her not 2 like u so b confident...GOOD LUCK

Answer 10

sometimes nice guys finish, which is true. never act wussy. by a mystery. maybe you put out a vibe that reads lame. change yourself a bit. doesnt hurt to tweak a few things. get active, play soccer, a sport, exercise, feel great.