2006-06-18 10:45:59 · 43 answers · asked by LexisB 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I didn't mean glasses are bad I just meant I don't have them. I have nothing against them! I'm young I don't mean to sound cocky! Just wondering how I should approach a guy? I also play soccer. I didn't mean to offend anyone! Please Read! And give me some Pointers. Plus- I didn't mean I'm the best looking person in the world.I'm shy and would like advice. I don't become self- absorbed, everyone just always tells me I'm pretty. Either grown men or my classmates.Please accept my apology!
2006-06-18 10:59:14 · update #1
Find a nice one and show him how smart and good and sexy u are!
2006-06-18 10:47:04 · answer #1 · answered by SweetBaby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself and keep a positive attitude. Nevermind those who descriminate against you and always smile. Humans are attracted to good personalities and smiles. Experiments have been tried with babies by showing them three circles that are the same color, the same sizr, the same type. The only difference with these circled faces is the mouth. On one, the mouth is frowning, on the other the mouth is still and serious, on the last, the mouth is smiling. It isnt amazing to see them bond more to the smily face than to the others. Smiling communicates warmth, acceptance and appreciation.
Most guys have a low self esteem. Perhaps by bing positive and showing that you appreciate them by smiling etc, they will be less afraid and feel more attracted to you.
Seriouly, do you feel most attracted to a person who is always complaining and never smiles? I didnt think so.
So go on, smile. Oh! and comb your hair in different styles every time. For some reason, guys like this.
2006-06-18 10:51:46 · answer #2 · answered by geniusflightnurse 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being smart, witty and good natured. Being yourself, and not trying to "put on airs" about being some one you are not.
Join clubs, and do new things, you will look more attractive to some one who shares those interests, than some one who stays at home and never goes out anywhere to meet anyone.
Dont go to bars, as its a dead end and you meet with those who are looking to "score" and not have a serious relationship, only a one night stand.
Be interesting, provocative and informative when a question is asked of you. The more wit you have, and good sense of humor, the more you will attract guys that have "value" instead of looking to pad the pillow with you...
I wish you well..
Jesse
2006-06-18 10:50:58 · answer #3 · answered by x 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course no glasses......FFS aren't you a fortunate little brat and a bit conceited I might add. I don't think being full of yourself is a good start to attract a guy. You may want to come back down to earth though, that would help. Usually those who think and say they are pretty are not nice, or polite and dont have personality. Do you?
2006-06-18 10:50:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You forgot to mention that you are vain and very self aware. I recommend that you loose some of those over bearing feelings that you have for yourself, and realize that if you want to attract a guy, you need to be concerned with his wants and desires also. It isn't at all about what you can show on the outside, but has everything to do with what is on the inside.
2006-06-18 10:54:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
With a little less ego. A guy really wants a girl he can talk to (that means you listen) and who he can laugh with unless he is a guy just looking to use a girl. He's not going to sit there and feed your ego looking into your eyes and saying how pretty and smart you are. What he wants is someone that lets him talk and ask him pertinent questions.
Guys want the attention for themselves unless they are looking for arm candy.
2006-06-18 10:50:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are pretty then that may get him to look your way but to keep him interested, that's another thing. You need to be a descent person, i suggest that you work on being that. For one thing don't assume you look good just because you don't wear glasses!
2006-06-18 10:51:50 · answer #7 · answered by Jade 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get some cute glasses so smart people will think you are smart too.
smart guys like smart girls...most of the time. it's like going fishing. use the right bait to catch the lunkers!
(seriously, try it. I bet you will be more approachable and not so intimidating if you are actually that good looking)
2006-06-18 10:50:07 · answer #8 · answered by rooster2381 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you were so smart you wouldn't be bad-mouthing people with glasses. You wouldn't be calling yourself "really pretty and good looking and smart," either.
If you are that smart, you'll have not problem attracting a guy - if you can find one that doesn't mind how conceited you are.
2006-06-18 10:49:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to attract a guy first you need to look within and change that attitude you come off cocky not confident which is not sexy
2006-06-18 10:49:44 · answer #10 · answered by kayla_ann_simmons 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In all fairness, you aren't going to get a guy who's worth crap talking about how pretty you are. Also, glasses don't make you ugly, a persons personality does!!
2006-06-18 10:49:05 · answer #11 · answered by Juicy Fruit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋