hi! am sarah again for allpeople who answerd me ..?

Question

hi!the problim is that my dad always busy my mother think that my sister is the best because my sister always tell my mother and every one if I falled in some thing ..... so mam think am not good and sucuss . when igot this year exllent marks ( as usual) itold every one . all people couldnt belive evevn my mother .....they said you are becoming your sister . that realy hert me when itold them this is my marks every year they said ya sure . idont like showing people what idid or what am good in because idont wana be her....

Answer 1

I think that you need to find an unbiased person that you can speak with. Whether that be a doctor, teacher, aunt, whatever. We can all tell you what we think, but you need someone who can talk to you about it all the time ... keep up with whats going on without you have to explain everything all the time ...

From someone who has been there. You can't change the situation, because you can't change people, but you can get it off your chest. Then, when you are 'old' like me, you can make your own decisions. Sometimes we just need to realize that relatives are a fluke of DNA and that our friends are actually our family.

Oh, and PS (I forgot something!) ... do the things that make you happy and that you know you are good at. Take it and run with it. My sister was really good at one thing, I was really good at another and there was no way you could compare the two. She was an ethnic dancer, I was a ballerina. She was a swimmer, I was a diver. She ran cross country, I ran track. Apples and oranges.

Take care. Everything will be ok. :)

Answer 2

Don't worry too much about your sister's success or lack thereof. Easier said than done, I realize... and if you are not getting recognition from your mother, that can be very difficult. But the best thing you can do is to live your own life as well as you can. You can't control the results after that. Be a good daughter, and achieve what you want to achieve in life. It doesn't matter, in the end, if your sister marks you for failure or if your mother gives you the recognition you deserve. Your actions will speak louder than your words, in the long run. Hang in there, and be true to yourself. :)

Answer 3

Well you seem like a really good person. Blessed are the pure in heart: for they shall see God. Rejoice, and be exceeding glad: for great is your reward in heaven. Bless them that curse you, do good to them that hate you, and pray for them which despitefully use you, and persecute you. You are a good person. You are the light of the world. A city that is set on a hill cannot be hid. Let your light so shine before your family, that they may see your good works. Do your best at all cause; don’t worry what your mom think. Judge and they should be judge. My dad is like that to me. He say thing to me like how come I’m not as smart, or grow up to be like him. I pretty much have different personality then all my half-brothers. A lot of my friends say I’m better then they are but for some reason it seem like my dad always love my half-brother better then me. He always tells them how proud he was of them even though they don’t have job or go to college. Ever since I was a child, I never had a helping hand from my dad. He never gave me a single pennies but I’m proven to better myself and I think that what you should be doing, live your life for yourself and not for other. Always think positive. What doesn’t kill you only make you stronger, right?

Answer 4

i know it hurts now but try to ignore things. i felt similar ways growing up in my house hold. my dad lived somewhere else my mother n i did not get a long n it seemed that my bro could do no wrong, i was told i had to get a job (coming out of the 6th grade) or my school clothes would not be bot for me. my bro never had a job til out of high school. he got good grades, i didnt. mom n i fot n it was always i bet so n so does not treat their mother this way or i bet so n so does not act like this. the constant comparison really screwed with me.

you know what you do and you know what you are worth. someday perhaps they will see when your sis is still living at home mooching off of momma w. no friends and you are a lawyer or brain surgeon or whatever it is your heart desires. just know that you can not please all, sadly sometimes that is even your family, the ones who should be there for you above all. keep your head up, dont give up on life n keep pushing forward.

Answer 5

You can only be yourself and yourself... the person you are, should be enough, especially for your family! Have you tried talking to your sister about how you're feeling? Or sitting down with your Mum and Dad and explaining to them how you're feeling? ... At the end of the day, you are you, you're an amazing person who can achieve anything you want to set your mind to... and when all's said and done, it's only yourself you have to answer to, that feeling that you've achieved something you set your sights on is better than any praise anyone else can give you.

Answer 6

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Answer 7

in todays world noone has so much time to think that deeply

so take a chill pill

just be proud of urself that u got excellent marks hang out with friends ,enjoy ur sucess

Answer 8

don't tell them, keep your good marks to yourself, you know you did well, just be happy one of these days you will be on your own, then your sister will not be an issue anymore, you did good , i will pat you on the back, pat pat, now keep up the good work!

Answer 9

Excel in things your sister doesn't, and don't worry. i have the same problem sometimes! just keep excelling, and your time will come when people will say your sister is excelling just like you. have faith! keep going! good luck sister!

peace

Answer 10

just believe in yourself. n try to do the best on everything for yourself.. not because to get attention from others.. because nobody is perfect in this world. and u born as u.