I have been seeing this guy for a while now, when we are together he acts like he is my boyfriend even though we are more than just friends. About two weeks ago I ask him what was the deal between us. I also told him how i felt about him. He blew me off as usual when I ask him deep questions. He never answered my question but he calls me once a day for like 5 minutes. I rarely see him and I feel a distance between us. Do you think he is married or have a girlfriend and does not want to commit or does he have serious issues opening up to me. He used to be so sweet to me, now it seems like he really isnt intrerested. What do you think. Please keep it real!!!! Thanks!
2006-06-18 10:15:28 · 8 answers · asked by Star 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Something's definitely up with him.
It also sounds like you've made yourself "too available" for him, and as a result he knows how to play you. You've given too much of yourself away too fast, and he treats you like a convenient ego-stroker. People treat you how you allow yourself to be treated.
I know it's not easy, but move on. There's someone out there who will appreciate what you have to offer. Life's too short.
2006-06-18 10:35:57 · answer #1 · answered by Ramsey R 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I think you don't really have a boyfriend whether he is married or not.
When a guy is into you, he will move heaven and earth to make time for you and will tell you his feelings when you ask.
There's a great book out called "He's just not that into you." Get it. Read it. Understand.
Walk away from him. IF he is genuinely interested, he'll come back and you can dictate the terms. If he doesn't come back, he's no loss.
Move on.
2006-06-18 17:25:55 · answer #2 · answered by Lori A 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl I've been there...he doesn't know what exactly is that he wants but he also doesn't want to lose you. The important question is "How long are you willing to go on like this?" Do what's best for you, you have a difficult decision to make.
2006-06-18 17:19:18 · answer #3 · answered by nina_0923 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Has he ever taken you home to Mama? Have you met his realatives? Taken you to his house?
If the answer is No to each of them, then he is either married or has another girlfriend on the hook and your just there to suppliment him, in case he needs you for sex.
It doesnt take long for people to realize what is going on, when they are disinterested parties, but, if, like you are close to him, then its hard for you to see the symptoms of being used and tossed aside for when you fit his "needs"...
I wish you well..
Jesse
2006-06-18 17:21:39 · answer #4 · answered by x 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-06-18 17:18:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ya have seen that type... Girl move on and find someone else dont waste your time.
2006-06-18 17:19:20 · answer #6 · answered by raw&truthful 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he has a boyfriend.
2006-06-18 17:18:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lose him before its late! He is married!
2006-06-18 17:18:09 · answer #8 · answered by ROSITA M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋