with his best friend!
2006-06-18 10:03:51 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The question for my friend i love my husband verry much and we have a baby girl together and im pregnant again i would never do that to my husband our relationship means to much to me! thank you for the answers
2006-06-23 06:49:58 · update #1
just tell him
2006-06-18 10:06:54 · answer #1 · answered by larry g 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think action speaks louder than words here. If the best friend is a man, most guys inclinations are to say 'hey! no way! you're MY woman!' You should talk to the best friend first, maybe get closer to him, possibly even have sex without the husband first (to work out any of the first-time 'kinks') Then, you should probably surprise your husband, maybe for his birthday, Christmas, Valentine's Day or hey, maybe even Father's Day (this will make the experience especially rememberable). Then buy some sexy clothes, model them for him a few days before and tell him not until such a such a date. On the day, come home early with the best friend, and time your intimacy, so your husband comes in at the most opportune time. Then say 'Hey baby, you want some of this action?' I think this will give the maximum effect. Best of luck to you.
2006-06-18 18:25:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel your relationship is strong enough for BOTH of you to fulfill at least one fantasy from each one. Then talk about it. But you have to keep in mind if you ask for a fantasy of your choice, then you will have to return the favor and give your husband a fantasy of his choice. So think about what you are not willing to do first. Then think about what your husband would want you to do. If you can carry it out then by all means ask away but if he is not willing to fulfill your fantasy with another guy then there are alternatives to a real guy. You can purchase a life size Male sex Mannequin which many couples have used in place of a third partner.
2006-06-18 17:13:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jennifer,
Sex is a good thing between one man and one woman. Sex last for a moment and love and communication last the other 24 hrs and some minutes after sex. Maybe you just want to sleep with the bestfriend or maybe you have. Maybe you want it in both places but what ever the reason I can only tell you not to. I would leave you in a heart beat if you tried that on me and I'm blunt to the point. Get your head out of your as& and wake up and smell the Roses. If you are having problems with your man work it out or get divorced. Good Luck!!!!
2006-06-18 17:12:06 · answer #4 · answered by Greenhornet 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suppose it all depends on how willing he is to participate in a threesome. I guess you could throw it out there and see what his reaction is, but maybe not say anything about the best friend part. To me it would seem like a good idea just to forget about the best friend and if a threesome is a possibilty to your husband, find someone different to do it with.
2006-06-18 17:08:01 · answer #5 · answered by dani_anne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good Luck, You are asking for trouble. Threesome dont always work, are you willing to share with your husband with another woman, like you are doing. You are destroying a good thing. Soon you are going to lose your husband's trust, do you really want that. It like you are saying that your husband doesnt satisfied you. What next cheating. People like you are the one that are messing with marriage.
2006-06-18 17:08:34 · answer #6 · answered by fabie1217 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Damn. Why would you tell your husband that your relationship isn't meaningful. This is a very high form of having no self respect, or respect for your husband. Most guys dream about a 3some, but most would also never act upon it.
2006-06-18 17:09:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the other person is a female, just bring her home whenever you are ready. Start flirting with him while she is watching & have her join in. On the other hand, If its a male, then you & your husband will have to talk that one out. Most males dont want 2 see another male naked, much less to see him naked with his wife.
2006-06-18 17:16:20 · answer #8 · answered by artpoz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a very serious situation, you are the only who should know your husband and how he will take it, I don' t think that this is going to be an easy question if he had never even joke about it.
2006-06-18 17:08:53 · answer #9 · answered by flowermieses@verizon.net 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just simply ask for a divorce, and tell him why you want it...because you want to have sex with his best friend!! (Should go over good, this being Fathers day and all :)
Then when he tosses you out the door, he can concentrate on getting some one with whom he can spend a life time with, and not some one who wants to cheat in him with his best friend and call it a tryst...
I wish you well..
Jesse
2006-06-18 17:17:57 · answer #10 · answered by x 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't want a threesome, or you wouldn't be so specific about who to include. Why don't you just tell him you want to leave him, taking half his money and property, and just for an extra kick in the balls, you are taking his best friend so that he won't have anyone to talk to about it afterward.
2006-06-18 17:11:35 · answer #11 · answered by Average John 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋