In my mind i have this ideal guy, should girls be picky? or do you just end up alone.
2006-06-18 09:47:41 · 13 answers · asked by trish 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
im just scared ill get hurt.
2006-06-18 09:53:44 · update #1
Its never bad to be picky, just don't overdo it. People pick because they have standards of which they would like to satisfy. So you can pick out any guy you like. But sometimes one have to asses the situation before picking. If one may be offende with such act, better give out a big sigh and keep your choices for yourself.
Sometimes, when we pick we just look at the superficial. Try picking the person or a guy through his qualities and characteristics and then you will be able to know that piking is not bad. Its healthy.
Hope to be of help!
2006-06-18 20:42:32 · answer #1 · answered by coolblueacid 4 · 26⤊ 2⤋
You MUST be picky! You will not end up alone, but it will take you a little longer to find what you're looking for. I would rather have 1 good person , than a dozen bad ones. You know what you want, and must have, so just be patient and wait for the right one. Good Luck!
2006-06-18 09:52:31 · answer #2 · answered by olderbutwiser 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being picky is not bad as long as it doesn't hurt anybody! I mean if being picky means despise people with a disgusted look.....!
But if you have criteria that a man should match, I can understand! Stay open anyway, true love is not necessarily in your dreams.
2006-06-18 09:56:58 · answer #3 · answered by fabee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good you don't want to settle for just anyone, but that ideal guy in your mind may just not exist? Be picky, but open-minded too.
2006-06-18 09:51:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's good to be picky sometimes but if you are very picky iam afraid you could end up alone
2006-06-18 09:50:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
be picky but be realistic. So if you say u want a rich guy, how many rich guys do u know or meet in a week. Are u eliminating good guys cause u are not being real.
2006-06-18 09:50:56 · answer #6 · answered by letmesurpriseu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say better be safe than sorry. Sure it'll take a while but if youre planning on getting married then you won't want some guy sleeping next to that you can't say without a doubt is worth your time. Marriage is for life and sometimes it takes a lifetime to truly know what you want. Just take your time you'll be alright.
2006-06-18 09:52:51 · answer #7 · answered by trumpetgod_86 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being picky's not bad. Just be sure to follow your heart.
2006-06-18 09:49:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont b picky give them all a chance or else you will be alone 4 eva
2006-06-18 09:50:18 · answer #9 · answered by bord_gal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is how i am ...being picky is bad ..i have broke up with alot of guys b/c they are really not what i am looking for ..u know
2006-06-18 09:51:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋