i got pregant for by boyfriend when i was 19?

Question

he left me when i was 21for other woman
bestfriend & i fell inlove. the problem with bestfriend is that i have any friend because he is very jeslose so what should i do. there also another guy oh i like before i met my bestfriend & i love them both please help me

Answer 1

I too got pregnant at 19, and now I have a great 18 month old boy. What I say is you should do what is best for yourself and your child. If he left you he is gone, and if you say you love someone else then give them a shot. But it sound to me that you need to get your priorities strait first before you go looking for a guy.

Answer 2

The very first thing u need to do is go back to school, because what u wrote was not very clear.

Secondly u need to keep ur legs closed because u might get pregnant for the best friend and he may just leave u high and dry too.

Thirdly u dont love these guys, u r just confused. U need some guidance.

Answer 3

You need to stop being so easy with your affections to guys. Your b/f that knocked you up didn't Love you because you were willing to have sex without asking for a commitment. The guy you are with now is a control freak, and you are still showing interest in another guy. Your behavior is very degrading to yourself, and will one day effect your children. Stop with all of the guys, and take care of your child. My advise is that you get your parents to let you move back in, and straighten out your life. Wait until your children have grown up before trying to find a guy. Your choices thus far have been poor.

Answer 4

Ok first you need to take care of your child.. Then get your self back to school and get an education. Look for support services that can help you in your community such as social services, planed parent hood, adult education, ICES and mental health services. Your child should come fist!! Bottom line...

Answer 5

Sounds like your 'best friend' has a reason to be jealous, huh?
They're only being irrational about being jealous when there's not another person.

You need to worry about being a mother to your child.
When you made decisions that ended up getting you pregnant, you gave up your immature days. Act like a responsible adult.

Answer 6

you need to get your crap together, realize that you are a mother and quit worrying so much about which guy you are going to choose for your next failed relationship. so i recommend growing up, focusing your priorities on being a good mother, birth control and getting and education and learning to spell wouldnt hurt either, eventually you'll need to help your child with homework and oh yeah support the kid too!!

Answer 7

Best advice I can give you is stop being such a dumbass. You have a baby. You need a good man to be your husband and a father to your baby. VERY bad things will happen to both you and your baby if you don't stop screwing around about this.

Answer 8

You need to re-think your life. You have your child to consider. Jumping from one bad relationship to another is not the answer. You should pray for guidance & choose to be the adult & mother that, like it or not, you are.

Answer 9

Drown yourself.

Seriously, it's the only way out of that mess you probably think if proper English.

Answer 10

make your boyfriend jealous. go near him without reconizing him and let all your friend bys go like oh i love like 7 people around you.and you look in your purse and get like alot of 100 dollars and go like here you go. and he will get jhealous of you. and he will like you.