Kissisng is the worst not to be so detailed but, his method of kissing is to open his mouth and stick his tongue barely moving it around. At no point does he closes his mouth. when he does take the time to caress me, he's very poor at that as well. He can last for a very long time and does everything including oral. but I don't want to bore you all with those unsatisfing details. I have tried to show him how to do certain things for him to see what arouses me but it's like he doesn't get it or want to. Please someone tell me what I can do or say to get him to understand. I really care about him and seriously need and want for this part of our relationship to be great and breathtaking.
2006-06-18 08:41:41 · 13 answers · asked by Memphis Lady 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Okay, I hear you there! I was in practically the same situation as you just a couple months ago. I tried a couple of things and it worked pretty well.
Now, everyone tells you honesty and communication is the best course. And it is. And it's the most healthy. But you don't necessarily have to communicate by sitting down and talking about it...it's kinda awkward.
So I decided to go on the offensive and show him what I wanted. Be aggressive in what you want. Believe me, it is an amazing turn-on for men.
My boyfriend used to kiss me like a St. Bernard, but what I did was that I slowed down and kissed him sensually with no tongue. Work into it, it's amazing how much great sensations you can get from just brushing your lips against his. Please tell me if I'm getting way too into detail, but hey, we're all in this together.
As for caressing, I know my boyfriend loves it when I take his hand in mine and show him what I like. From what I've learned, men are very tactile and he will enjoy having you take control and touching yourself with him.
Just let yourself take control sexually, you don't have to be all dominatrix and scary, but just able to know what you want and go for it. Believe me, he will enjoy it just as much as you.
Hope that helps you out!
2006-06-18 08:51:36 · answer #1 · answered by Harmonie 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The only thing I can say is to exercise patience. Some people just aren't as good at certain things as others, and what this means you should try to do is to take the time to communicate with him, show him what you want done directly, and take him through it step by step. After a while, he should get the hang of things. This may seem like a lot of effort, but it's better than letting him continue with his clumsy ways.
2006-06-18 08:47:46 · answer #2 · answered by Mad Mike 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, if he doesnt "get it" or seems that he doesnt want to then, it sounds liek to me he isnt very interested in finding out what pleases you!. He is very content in doing things his way , regardless of whether you liek it or not.
My opinion, stop fooling around with him and tell him WHY. Let him know that its more frustrating than enjoyable to fool around with him adn until he takes proper measures (listening, willing to learn) to pleasing you, you WILL NOT be involving urself with him physically.
His response to thins will show you his true intentions.
If he says OK and really makes an effort -- u have a keeper who is into u and willing to learn how to please you!
If he responds harshly and even threatens to go fool around with others since u "won't", well.... u get the point. hes a selfish *** who deserves to be let go!!!!
2006-06-18 08:51:00 · answer #3 · answered by muycaliente_mamichulita 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
feels like he continues to be getting to grasp and having a tricky time. perchance he's doing that to circumvent temptation? wait and spot, flow away or the two. No you're no longer incorrect for desiring affection above that which eh could instruct to others, yet basically undergo in suggestions that he's not your fiance or husband, so he does not unavoidably owe that to you. i could say he owes you a precedence pertaining to to his time and have confidence however. If he enjoyed you the comparable as each and every person else, he does not have asked you to be his lady chum. he's have confidence attempting to establish the excellent stability, no longer snub you. you ought to tell him what's on your suggestions. men do no longer like it as quickly as we "assume them to nicely known what we are thinking." =)
2016-10-31 02:23:52 · answer #4 · answered by rangnow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get on top & ride the idoit how old is he, teach him a lesson dont waste time 4 preschooling an oldman sack his thing shake the boy & he wil tell u the pin code of his banking details, he think we are playing here, vgina was designed to be faaked, when he stop tell him dont faaken stare on my uus eat it. we dont have time for prescholing, tel him not to smile for & faaken ride stupit, he is embarasing man.
2006-06-18 09:00:26 · answer #5 · answered by jonas m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
teach him he may be embarassed but tell him what you liek or tell him to... no lie go read those hentai mangas they are very discriptive and hell they taught me alot, and then tell him the specific things you like alot of sexual activity is a learnign experiance, oh btw never fake it then he'll never learn women who dot hat are ****** retarded how dod you ladies expect it to get better if he thinks hes a god?
2006-06-18 08:47:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you tried xxx movies? if he is interested in watching them, just comment in a roundabout way that you would like to try that and look for a hell yeah!!! in his eyes :-) also, have you really told him how you are not being totally satisfied in that area?
2006-06-18 08:53:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well the next time you are together... if he does somethin that feels great... moan and encourage him....
plus try out stuff.... new things... a game where u would reward him only if he made u happy...
2006-06-18 08:48:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you really need to sit and talk to him about it and tell him what makes you feel good and what you want in the bedroom and what turns you on
2006-06-18 08:46:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell how u feel if he really cares about u he will change 4 u.
2006-06-18 08:55:45 · answer #10 · answered by bananitchica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋