Is there no way around it?

Question

If I meet a guy and go with the popular thing and get involved with him sexually without being married, the relationship goes nowhere, where as if I hold out and stand my ground upfront I get nowhere. I don't want to come across as a prude because I enjoy sex alot but want someone who cares about me too. Is there anyway around it? I have a lover so I can control myself if I find the right person but really want one guy in my life.

Answer 1

It's called a vibrator.