I stated earlier a rape question and now I am seeing that there maybe some possible rape victims here needing help. Let me help you with some facts and advice.
1) It is not your fault. Do not feel guilty or any regret after it happens. You are the victim, you are the one who needs help.
2) Do not take a bath or shower after it happens. This destroys evidence and the chill of the water may trigger shock.
3) Go immediately to a hospital, clinic or rape victim center. Do not wait till the next day, go immediately. If you do not want to tell your parents or family for what ever reason it’s ok, these places will maintain it confidential by law.
4) Do not try to protect your rapist. I know it will feel extremely embarrassing but by protecting your rapist you are giving him the chance to do this again.
Anyone which to comment or help out?
2006-06-18 08:21:19 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I was raped in 1991 by a "man" I didn't know. For the simple fact that he didn't ejaculate the charges were lessened and eventually let go because the cops found it more interesting that I worked in a strip bar at that time. Out of "youngness" I let the case go. From time to time I reflect back to that horrible time but I know in my heart that I can and will go through life with my head held high! God doesn't put anything on us that we can not truly handle.
2006-06-18 08:32:26 · answer #1 · answered by Micki 1 · 20⤊ 3⤋
I am lucky, never been raped (knock on wood, though i did come close once)! But your points are very important. Thank you for putting that out there for all woman and children that are victims or potential victims.
2006-06-18 15:25:47 · answer #2 · answered by FaerieWhings 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
thanks for the advice I think people are just to incompetent if they acted more vicious if they attempted to bite claw constantly used there muscles foring the person back until they collapsedand if they can talk confusing the senses then nothing could stop them which is why female dogs are as vicious as male I think they are atleast ^-^
2006-06-18 15:29:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thanx for the advice....are you a Cop?
2006-06-18 15:24:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
thanx for the advice. i carry pepper spray
2006-06-18 15:24:38 · answer #5 · answered by i rawkkk 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Thanks for the adice, i hope that other raped victims get a chance to see it.
2006-06-18 15:27:15 · answer #6 · answered by baby_luv 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
good advice.. but i'm not an expert on this kind of topics...
2006-06-18 15:26:12 · answer #7 · answered by Honey Gee 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Thanks 4 ur advice
2006-06-18 16:47:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anky 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋