so now my parents say they don't trust me. how can i gain it back?
2006-06-18 08:03:46 · 28 answers · asked by if-looks-could-kill 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Do some more chores around the house, get new friends (if they are bad influences) and this next one is real important...Stop sneaking out of the house. Do those things and with some time they will trust you again.
2006-06-18 08:07:28 · answer #1 · answered by RoCkSoLiD009 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hey sneaking out it's going to be a tough ride to get back on you can trust me ride, but it is possible you have got to start all over again parents are some of the most interesting people on the planet they just want the best for their children you can get the trust they once had in you,start doing everything they ask you and somethings they never though you would do,if you have to report anything to them make sure that it's done to the tee, if you were on punish don't complain accept it without any back talk no matter what it my be do very nice things for your parents if you have siblings do nice things for them let your parents know that you are sorry for trying to sneak out and after a couple of months try and see if they think you learned from your mistake you must pass with flying colors even they only give you a hour or two out for the first time sense your punishment if you do well the next couple times you should have regained the trust they once had in you. Good Luck and don't try that sneaking out thing again
2006-06-18 08:27:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, take responsibility for your actions - they don't trust you because you did something that proved to them that you are not to be trusted. Your choice - admittedly a bad one.
To correct it - try approaching them by saying that you know you were wrong and that they have every reason to not trust you. Then (here's the key) - ask THEM what you can do to gain their trust back. Ask them to write a list of things that you can do to gain it back. It's really up to them.
Good luck
2006-06-18 08:09:39 · answer #3 · answered by PamV 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, just be good for a couple of weeks and do everything they ask you to do without any fuss. Acknowledge that you made a mistake and that you are sorry for upsetting them. It will pass with time. The next time you sneak out don't get caught.
2006-06-18 08:09:17 · answer #4 · answered by dlow1972 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummm stop sneaking out. Trust is something that takes years and years to build but only a moment to ruin. It is going to take long time for them to trust you again. But the next chance they give you, whatever you do don't mee it up.
2006-06-18 08:07:13 · answer #5 · answered by cboyce 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thank God you are safe. Let me tell you about my son. He left on Thursday night at eight. By ten thirty the whole family was calling friends and driving around looking for him. He was no where to be found. After three more hours, we found out that he had been spotted at a gas station and that three high school kids were escorting him into a truck. After that the truck was seen at the river. It hadn't been seen since. We continued to look for eighteen hours.............first we were searching for him walking and the more we heard..............we began doing a walking search thinking that he had been severely hurt by the kids.
As a parent, I had to report him as missing and doctors and dentists were called to get dental and medical xrays in case they were needed to identify my babies body..............yes he is a teen ager but, he is still my baby.
Thankfully, he was found.
Do you think I will ever forget the worry or concern I felt when I thought my son could possibly be dead? I won't ever forget the fear that I had.
Go to your parents.....................kiss them and hug them and tell them that you will never do it again. It was a stupid mistake and you can't begin to understand just how worried they must have been but, you will never do that to them again.
And then.............sweetheart, prove it to them. Call them when you go out, so they know their baby is safe.
2006-06-18 14:08:25 · answer #6 · answered by heartwhisperer2000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first is to understand why they are upset. Then apologize and make sure you know that you understand why they are upset and that you are sorry for making them upset and that you will do your best to make sure it doesn't happen again. Then you need to be good for a while and make sure you are where you say you are and other things like doing well in school and then you will probably have their trust back.
2006-06-18 08:07:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, I get caught doing lots of ****, me and my parents are now "building trust" is what they call it.
to gain trust back don't break curfew and if you can come home earlier than curfew
i hug my parents a lot
remember the quote "what mama and papa don't know, doesn't hurt 'em"
don't get caught again
2006-06-18 08:08:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember your actions have given them every right not to trust you. Now make your actions give them every right to trust you. Actions speak louder than words is a very acurate saying. If they answer a request in a negative, respect their decision and don't make that request again. Be patient.
2006-06-18 08:09:36 · answer #9 · answered by concerned aunt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't sneak. Speak openly and honestly with your parents. Let them know it is important to you that they trust you, and NOT just so you can sneak out again...... give it time......
2006-06-18 08:08:05 · answer #10 · answered by seeker100 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋