and since then, it's like my brain has disappeared. i forget how to do things, like swallow or breathe. so i'll be sitting there panicking coz i can't remember how to do a simple thing! and i can't really eat, because i'm scared i'm gonna choke and i can't swallow all that well, and it always feels like i'm gonna throw up. and food tastes different. like waaaay sweeter than usual, and it makes me feel sick.
what the heck is wrong with me??
2006-06-18 07:44:27 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
WHAT THE HELL HAPPENED TO YOU?? WHAT DID HE DO?
TELL SOMEONE NOW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-06-18 07:47:31 · answer #1 · answered by Pilsner 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I posted a rape question about 20 minutes ago so maybe I can help you. You say you’re throwing up a lot and can not hold your food down because of a foul taste in your mouth. This I have heard of from other rape victims so I am going to guess he forced you to perform oral sex on him. Maybe he also forced his sperm down your throat which causes your digestive system to spasm from the shock. Do you feel digestive problems around the same time you were raped? If so this means it is not a physical problem but a form of post-traumatic stress disorder. You might also be suffering from memory black out, this will explain why you think you might have been raped. Your mind is using a defense mechanism where it denies recordings of memory to surface from your subconscious. No it doesn’t mean you are crazy it means your mind is defending you from something horrible. Also you might be suffering from delayed shock of accepting what has happened. My advice to you is to follow the next steps to help you. 1) Go to the nearest clinic and tell them you have been raped. By law they will keep it very confidential and take safety steps for your health. They will give you test for STD’s, pregnancy and physical evidence. (The state pays for this ok). Then they will help you to safety. Please go to a clinic immediately! The longer you wait the worse you are going to feel! It will not get better unless you get help!
2006-06-18 15:06:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is very deficult to deal with trauma, stress, fetige and depression
pls seek professional help maybe counseling mite help,
ounce u become open & share your problems with close friends or profesional u will heal you memory is not accepting anything from that expirience & if u dont take care of it may result into a life time problem & dont even try to comit sucide u will find that in heaven is whorse than here, pls dont stop praying at the moment godbless, many peolple have overcome that problem b strong
2006-06-18 14:55:46 · answer #3 · answered by jonas m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you thing you've been raped you need to first report it to the police, because it's a crime. Secondly the reason your body is acting the way it is, is because rape causes trauma, and when you're in trauma you go through all negative emotions. You need to find a psychiatrist to talk to, because this will only get worse if it's not taken care of now.
2006-06-18 14:49:45 · answer #4 · answered by Carrie P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're having anxiety attacks. Hon, you need to talk to someone about this. Your parents, a friend, the police, or a counselor. If you are having such strong feelings, you definitely were sexually assaulted or raped. You need to tell someone so this guy can be brought to justice. You can't live like that.
2006-06-18 14:49:44 · answer #5 · answered by Astro 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have got to come to terms with what happened. You feel bad b/c you can't decide what to do. It sounds like you know it was wrong. Can you talk to someone to help you sort things out. Until you do you will have inner turmoil.
2006-06-18 14:48:30 · answer #6 · answered by pms247 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get thee to a clinic, test yourself for stds and pregnancy and ask to see a counselor. if you can talk to your parents, do so, or a friend, who will help you if you need emotional help.
if you are feeling like this was rape, do something about it and make sure another doesnt go through the same as you did.
2006-06-18 14:49:32 · answer #7 · answered by dansza 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go 4 a pregnancy test & by the way if u had sex, did he use a condom????if not ur in trouble girly! have an open conversation with ur mom & tell her ur feelings (she is the only one who can help u out of this situation).really believe me! u'll surely feel better after u reveal it to ur mom! and who is that guy anyway??someone from ur family??friendz???cousins???
2006-06-18 14:51:26 · answer #8 · answered by hot_angel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry. If he forced you to touch his genitals or touched yours if you didn't want him to, then that's sexual abuse. Tell a trusted adult and they can help you. You have done nothing wrong and now you need help so you can feel better. Hang in there.
2006-06-18 14:49:31 · answer #9 · answered by Rachel M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's called post-traumatic stress. Please contact the authorities and let them know what this guy did to you and get trauma counselling ASAP- you will also need a physical exam- I know it's embarassing but you need to have everything checked out.
2006-06-18 14:49:01 · answer #10 · answered by Mrs.Foster 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your in shock, just calm down and little bit and tell your family or friends about this situation. You need to calm down because you are in a deep shock ok?
2006-06-18 15:01:02 · answer #11 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋