years .he lost his license about 3 years ago before i meet him because he got in alot of trouble with the cops .he cant get his car back until he pays all his fines .he makes about 550 a week and lives with his parents but he doesnt know how to save money .i have a job where i make about 300 a week and this month i got a 1000 dollar bonus. the last 2 days i been f*cked up on excasty pills and i told my boyfriend that i would pay off his fines so i can help him get his car and now im really upset .i'm a very negative person i dont believe in others and i dont trust anyone .so i keep thinking that once i pay his fines that are about 1500 dollars and his going to get his car then dump me . the point is that i have to pay for my own college and he sayed that i help him pay off his fines and get his car that his going to be able to make alot of money and he will pay for my school and anything i want but i keep thinking im going to get f*cked over .should i pay all his fines ?
2006-06-18 07:37:19 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
first of all, you should not even be bothered by his problem. It is not like that is your husband or anything. You should be concern about yourself not him. He can take care of himself, just take care of yourself first once you get married, then you can pay to help him but if you are not, I suggest you not to.
2006-06-18 08:10:53 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No.He makes alot more than you and if he REALLY wanted his car back he would have taken care of it by now.
You are trying to go to school and have bigger obligations to yourself and your future.Dump him and let him pay his own fines .
2006-06-18 07:58:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No if he can get out of repaying you he probably will. if he loves you he wouldn,t even asked you to help. you would have offered without being asked. so be careful. look out for numero uno
2006-06-18 07:48:29 · answer #3 · answered by Babyboy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋