I'm getting married tomorrow! HELP?

Question

I AM HYPERVENTILATING OMGOMGOMGOMG I AM SO SCARRED. I DONT KNOW IF I CAN BE A DAD TO TWO KIDDLES, MY HEAD HURTS I AM SO SCARED OMG! MY SUIT HAS WRINKLES, MY GF IS YELLING AT ME 2 SHAVE, MY WATER SPRINKLER WON'T SHUT OFF... *BREATHES IN PAPER BAG*

Advice?

Answer 1

Hun go take a long walk by yourself take your suit to the cleaners and get it pressed a one hour cleaner will do it take your walk while your suit is being pressed forget the sprinklers(unless your having the reception or wedding in your yard then go cut the water supply off to your sprinklers. and tell you g/f to calm down you want to shave in the morning so you will be smooth for the wedding without any red bumps and you will be a great dad anyone who wonders is usally an excellent dad cause they never think they are doing the right thing so they one up themself and do one better than before problems solved?

Answer 2

Advise from a professional Wedding Consultant:

First...breathe...if the paper bag helps, keep using it.
You need to relax - shaving might help. It gives you some alone time, especially if you close the door while you shave. I know this doesn't sound very "manly" but maybe take a bath. It seems to be the best way for anyone to relax is when they have alone time.

As for the suit, if you have the money, take it to a one hour cleaner to get it steamed. If not, wait until after everyone has gone to bed tonight and then do it. I'm hoping that your best man was smart enough to have your bachelor party last night so that if he does decide to get you wasted, you're not hung over for your big day. If he hasn't take it really easy on the booze tonight so that you're not worse off tomorrow.

Now, as for the rest of it - don't worry about the sprinkler. Unless you're having your reception on your lawn, it doesn't matter. If you are, find someone else to fix it - you have enough to worry about before tomorrow. As for the kids, your fiancee wouldn't have come this far with you if she didn't think you would be great with them. You're still around for a reason so don't stress over it.

If all this hasn't helped, hang out with your guys tonight. You chose your best man because he's someone you can relax and hang out with - make sure he does his job. Just make sure to take it easy on the booze or you'll feel worse tomorrow.

Take it easy, have fun, relax. Tomorrow will be the best day of your life. Don't worry about the small stuff and have fun.

Answer 3

This sounds so normal!! Don't people usually go through this anxiety the day before? You'll be fine and she will be the most beautiful woman you have ever seen in your life when she walks down that aisle tomorrow.And the reception will be the most WONDERFUL party you have ever been too because your good friends and family will be there to celebrate with you.

Everything will be fine, you're just nervous. Remember marriage is only a piece of paper. Whether you are married or not, you still have a relationship with this woman that is pretty much a marriage, just without the license.

Answer 4

It will be a great day. Settle down and enjoy. Otherwise you are going to regret it. That you didn't enjoy the day because you were wigging out. Shut the water off and disconnect the sprinkler. Being a dad isn't that bad. You'll have good days and bad. But really ain't to bad. Take your suit to the dry cleaners. They will get the winkles out. Get rid of the paper bag, it will make you look stupid. Good luck

Answer 5

You're getting married tomorrow? OKAY! either you have cold feet or you're definitely not prepared to get into this marriage. You are so spastic that I wouldnt even understand what you were writing. I would definitely sit down, make a list of the plus's and minuses of what your like will be like with this person and weigh whether you are both ready to go into this...how long have you dated? How often have you thought about this....have you been married before? All these questions play a role. make sure it is what you want. Think of you first....this is a BIG committment and too many people these days take it lightly. Good Luck.

Answer 6

First, calm down. realize that everything is not going to be perfect. make the best of your day, have no regrets. Shave, you will probably look better. Don't worry about the sprinkler or anything else that doesn't pertain to your day tomorrow. Try and watch a funny movie or listen to music to relax. It's just one day, and trust me it goes by so fast. If you blink you will miss it. So just stay calm. Good Luck.

Answer 7

The best thing to do is to go to the beach,lake or ocean and take a walk up/down the boardwalk or possibly even sit on the sand. This is to help relax and clear your mind. If you don't live close to "water" areas and don't mind the long drive, it will be worth it. It's not good to stay home if you are stressed out and these are one of the best places to go.

Answer 8

you are getting married tomorrow and you are spending your time sitting in front of your computer? this is so sad! anyway,I was in a marriage yesterday, the couple is together for 10 years and they still look as if they are in their first month and even better.. they chose to grow up together and built a life together..
if this is your case also, good luck!
if it is not your case, good luck again you will need it more!

Answer 9

Take a breather, touch yourself (of if you like, I can do that for you), and just relax. Even though this woman doesnt respect your athorati like a woman should, its OK. You love her and she loves you, and sometimes in rare cases love can actually be more important than a woman's need to serve every need of her husband.

I'm sure that you will be just fine.

Answer 10

Its ok, duh ur gf is gonna yell at u, its her HUGE day, let her have it, call ur mom, i know it sounds weird, but shell iron those wrinkles all out, and shell talk u through it. Dont walk out on her, and u can be a father, if u thought u couldnt b then u wouldnt have asked her to marry u.