My boyfriend and I are DYING to have some time alone from everyone...but there is a problem since his cousin moved in from fl, ( moved into his house...my bf lives with his parents) we've been stuck with him ever since! It's been since Feb. Even when we plan on going places by OURSELVES if he mentions it to one of his parents...they're always like "Take Michael with you!" and crap and if he dont he gets griped out. I'm sick of that crap! Can someone please help me get rid of this annoying tag along????
I've tried setting him up with people... they can't stand him either. He isnt making any friends at all...he's so lazy & annoying no one wants to be around him
Yes I meant to put this is ifectious diseases... because thats what he is ...ugh
2006-06-18 07:21:45 · 16 answers · asked by bayebeebuns 1 in Health ➔ Diseases & Conditions ➔ Infectious Diseases
Tell him your sick of his annoying antics and he needs to get a life. Tell your bf that you dont want him hanging around you anymore and if he loves you he should respect that. =)
2006-06-20 03:52:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
I have to chuckle at the infectious diseases catagory. Depending on how old your bf is I would suggest he sit down with his parents and discuss it. His parents cant be that stupid to know what its like to have a tag along around all the time. Maybe they are using this cousin as a babysitter for you guys. Just a thought maybe they are worried things could be happening. Your bf needs to get to the bottom of it. Good luck!!!
2006-06-18 07:27:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try not to mention it to the cousin, and if you do, just mention that you would like some privacy this time and that maybe the next time or so he can join along.
If that doesn't work, mention that you are going to a boring place, like, your old family grave site and really don't go there, call the house saying that you guys decided to go out afterwards. if not a grave site, you need to pick up a book quickly at the library.
2006-06-18 07:26:58 · answer #3 · answered by Almeida girl 24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First your BF needs to talk to his parents and tell them to STOP volunteering you guys as companions; have him explain that it's not his responsibility to make sure his cousin has a good time, that it's now up to him to make his own friends. That will help it a lot. Then when he says he wants to go, and doesn't have your BF's parents encouragement to tag along, it will be a lot easier to say NO! Hopefully after a while he will get the hint.
Good luck!
2006-06-18 07:25:59 · answer #4 · answered by FaerieWhings 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are either of you being paid for babysitting service? I bet not. I also bet this Michael is old enough to entertain himself once in awhile. Everyone needs some quiet alone time ~ your boyfriend may have to just state that fact to his parents, in a nice way, of course. Tag alongs are like company...one or two days is fine, after that they begin to stink. If his parents won't listen, plan something and then just go without mentioning it. It sounds to me like it's someone else's turn to babysit for awhile.
2006-06-18 07:31:56 · answer #5 · answered by belle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awww... how mean... poor guy. Just have times where you guys invite him to things without the parents telling you to, then later that day say WE are going to go do something together now. Then maybe he won't feel like you guys are trying to get rid of him, since you already did something with him that day.
2006-06-18 07:28:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you tried telling him that you're going somewhere really boring where he won't enjoy himself or have any fun??? Or maybe it's not him. Maybe his parents don't want him to be alone with you. Are they the old fashioned type? Well I guess the most you can really do is just talk to him about it. Confront him with it. You'll never know until you try.
2006-06-18 07:27:04 · answer #7 · answered by Me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you are going out for dinner right after work
and you will meet him at a certain restaurant.
Then just go someplace else and enjoy your
time with your boyfriend. When you get home
ask him"where were you? We waited for you and
you didn't show up!
Maybe he gets the hint.
2006-06-18 07:30:16 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you tried explaining to him and the parents that sometimes it would be nice to be able to spend time alone with you bf?
if that doesn't work, honestly i'd just tell him to go away.
just take him when you're feeling nice.
you aren't a babysitter.
maybe ask them to pay you next time ;)
2006-06-18 07:28:07 · answer #9 · answered by tinkbostwick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just say you and your guy need sometime alone, but try being nice about it. And when your with him make sure he has a good time, cuz trust me its hard moving to a place where you don't know anybody and everybody you meet is a di^ck
2006-06-18 07:25:18 · answer #10 · answered by nadia4u20 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋